Daughter is pregnant - at 15!

poppyfield19

I don't know how these mobiles work, her dad tops it up though. Hardly ever needs to but would that mean a contract?

LEJC

Can I ak Poppy a direct question...re the father

What are you hoping will happen once you have a name for them?

Do you plan that they have a say in your daughters decision...It seems to me that its possibly not someone you know or have even met previously in the capacity of a friend/boyfriend...so if thats the case where do you see him fitting into the situation as it is now?

poppyfield19

My daughter isn't waiting to make her decision next week - that's why we spent so long today discussing it. I won't let her spin it out.
I genuinely don't think she has told any of her friends. I don't see why she would lie about it, they usually share things as a group and if she told one, she couldn't trust that friend to not let it slip to the others no doubt.

life_in_termoil

Sounds like PAYG in which case you wouldnt be able to check online.

poppyfield19

LEJC wrote: »

Can I ak Poppy a direct question...re the father

What are you hoping will happen once you have a name for them?

Do you plan that they have a say in your daughters decision...It seems to me that its possibly not someone you know or have even met previously in the capacity of a friend/boyfriend...so if thats the case where do you see him fitting into the situation as it is now?

Honestly I don't know yet, it depends, that's something her dad will talk with her about too I think.

Welshdebtor

poppyfield19 wrote: »

I don't know how these mobiles work, her dad tops it up though. Hardly ever needs to but would that mean a contract?

that is pay as you go, so throws the ideas of others out the window.

Elle7

:beer:

poppyfield19 wrote: »

I don't know how these mobiles work, her dad tops it up though. Hardly ever needs to but would that mean a contract?

No it's probably pay as you go then.

How is she today?

Gavin83

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

Apart from having sex with someone when she was supposed to be at book group/dog walking/at a friend's house you mean? You must use a very strange definition of the word "dishonest"!

With all due respect we dont know the circumstances, she may very well have gone to these activities. It may not even have happened there, could have been at school, on the way home, etc.

Until we know what happened you can't call this dishonest.

cprtknight4

Op I think your doing a brill job with your daughter and the circumstances.. And I hope I can be the same as you when my children are older.

I'm sure your daughter will come to a decision within time, it's a hard decision for any female, regardless of the age to decide on the future of an unplanned pregnancy.

poppyfield19

Much the same today, just thinking a lot about what she wants to do.