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Help! Need to talk to OH.

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  • Raksha
    Raksha Posts: 4,569 Forumite
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    doodoot wrote: »
    Wow...how did this thread end up speculating whether OP's partner is a cross-dresser?!?!?

    OP, you seriously need to put your foot down.

    Tell him that either these little soirees every month come to an end NOW, or you are walking into a divorce solicitor's office on Monday morning.

    This guy is well taking the pish and you have been letting him!

    Having time out for meditation and spending a weekend in London seeing a play/film WITH ANOTHER PERSON with dinner included are not the same ruddy things!

    How? Because it's one of the things that could explain his behaviour.

    OP only needs to put her foot down if, having been told the truth, she believes it's not something she can continue to live with.

    Ofcourse, if OP is a control freak, this won't be possible.....
    Please forgive me if my comments seem abrupt or my questions have obvious answers, I have a mental health condition which affects my ability to see things as others might.
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