Defiant child and pansy teacher.

melancholly

well you can continue to be angry and campaign against the teacher..... this will eat you up as the teacher will be protected (for doing their job) and it won't benefit your daughter.

if you have been having massive problems getting your daughter to school, it's about time you had a meeting with them to discuss what's going on. they aren't psychic and if you don't explain the issues you have, they will be forced to fill in the gaps themselves and, understandably, will err on the side of caution for the safety of the child.

try and speak to them and don't make it personal - the best outcome is the one where your daughter gets the best education she can. that really requires a united stand between parents and school. try to make that happen as this isn't about you being offended, it's about your daughter.

Blackpool_Saver

lauren_1 wrote: »

the teacher insinuated to ss that i kicked my dd because she had bruises on her legs. Is that not the same thing as reporting?

NO it is not

lauren_1

Are you seriously telling me not one of you have ever had to literally walk your child to school by their hand or arm, I see this happen on a daily basis to lots of children on the way to school, im not dragging her by her feet or hair or scruff of the neck, this is not abuse at all.

So if your dd has taken 45 mins to do what is a 5 min walk you would be happy to sit on the wall whilst they throw the 5th hissy fit of the morning or should i just leave her and get my ds to school on time?

If she's late she gets detentions, if she's on time i get accused of abuse, if ds is late he gets put in the late book when its not his fault at all.

Please tell me how or where I am going wrong with this situation?

relic

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

Hmmm interesting answer, have you ever been tested for aspergers because that literal take on a statement which clearly was an example, shows a possible tendency to me, of course it could just be a lack of language ability...........

I didn't want to say anything, but.... yeah.

I mean I, as well as others, may have jumped to conclusions, and I apologise.

But people on here are giving some good, genuine advice, yet the only posts you respond to are the ones involving yourself, and not your daughter.

Blackpool_Saver

Your daughter has some sort of problem, YOU need to be more open and receptive to help, the problem is that you fight the people who are trying to help you and it makes them suspicious of you..............

relic

lauren_1 wrote: »

Are you seriously telling me not one of you have ever had to literally walk your child to school by their hand or arm, I see this happen on a daily basis to lots of children on the way to school, im not dragging her by her feet or hair or scruff of the neck, this is not abuse at all.

So if your dd has taken 45 mins to do what is a 5 min walk you would be happy to sit on the wall whilst they throw the 5th hissy fit of the morning or should i just leave her and get my ds to school on time?

If she's late she gets detentions, if she's on time i get accused of abuse, if ds is late he gets put in the late book when its not his fault at all.

Please tell me how or where I am going wrong with this situation?

Where do I start?

lauren_1

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

Hmmm interesting answer, have you ever been tested for aspergers because that literal take on a statement which clearly was an example, shows a possible tendency to me, of course it could just be a lack of language ability...........

Are you actually for real?

Idiophreak

lauren_1 wrote: »

the teacher insinuated to ss that i kicked my dd because she had bruises on her legs. Is that not the same thing as reporting?

Oh, so you saw the report that the teacher made to SS? And it said "Lauren's been kicking her daughter"?

I imagine the teacher just reported the bruising and let SS read whatever they wanted into it, based on the past history of the case.

relic

lauren_1 wrote: »

Are you actually for real?

You are, in a way, confirming his post.

Blackpool_Saver

My son has ADHD/bipolar/dyspraxia, I know what i am talking about, from nursery onwards it has been a battle, he is now 18, you have a long way to go, you need to embrace the help not fight against it......