Husband gone, what now?

TooSad

Lara44 wrote: »

Yay TS!!! :j :j :j

Thanks Lara.

I've had another good and productive day today, things just feel right iyswim. I wish I could bottle how I feel when I am having a really good day.

I have totally got my work/life balance sorted I think, I have been delegating more, saying NO to people when they want me to do stuff cos they cant be arsed and the such like. One night a week I will do work for school at home and that is it, the rest of the week I might stay at school until 5:00pm (cut off time) but I would rather do that than have it to do at home. The rest of the time its about me, doing things I want to do. I know we are only 3 weeks in but I really hope I can keep this up.

OH came for tea last night we had an arguement but it wasnt a horrid arguement or an arguement about us per say, he said something, it wound me up, I let rip a bit, he listened, I felt better for not just taking it on the chin, and I think in some ways he respected me for not just taking it. (Does that make sense?)

Anyway best go find my cossie, last week I thought I had, but I had put in a small bikini :eek: and low and behold there was a Y8 kid from school waving at me as he was at swim club. Dont want to feel that "exposed" again, lol

TS x

TooSad

Been swimming and for the first time in weeks and weeks OH has come round, without checking if I was in. Just popped by. I am a bit taken aback but in a nice way TS x

TooSad

He's gone now, its all a bit weird, but nice weird. Not going to hang my hopes from one unannounced visit but it was nice, really nice x

Stephb1986_2

Hi TS, I've only just seen your thread but worked my way through all the pages I felt so sad for you at the beginning but now your life is looking up and you've got yourself on track yay you!!

How's things going with your dad? I don't live with my h2b but I do however try to help him keep his house clean and tidy sometimes it's hard but he is a bloke on his own. He knows how to put the washer on but then forgets about it (Men!) Once a month I check to make sure he has everything like washing powder, loo roll etc if not I buy it when I get the shopping in at home, I usually buy bulk because it can work out cheaper and also I have a trade account for most places so it's easier on me in that sense. Asda always have offers on bleach and things if I can get two for the price of one I always give him the extra one.

It's nice that your OH came unannounced proves that he's thinking about you, I hope things are better with you soon.

I can't believe how much change there has been for you

Chin up hun

Steph xx

TooSad

Had another good day - just saying

TS x

victory

TooSad wrote: »

Had another good day - just saying

TS x

And so you should:D people often forget the good and go towards the negative, it is lovely to hear you happy:D

TooSad

Yep, lots of postivity flying around in the TS house and workplace today, don't know why, don't care why. Im just happy x

victory

Just enjoy it who cares why enjoy:j:j:j:D

Choc-addict

Enjoy! :):)

deb68_2

keep smiling,enjoy an be happy
xxx