Stripper Opinions - but fear I may regret it.

Pixiechic

I have seen quite a few of my friends naked and they have seen me naked. It really isn't a big deal. I don't see the problem at all. There is nothing offensive about a naked body.

In other countries it is the norm to go naked in a sauna and it doesn't seem to bother anyone. I remember chatting to a butt naked Israeli male in the cool down room after the sauna in Prague once.

Fang_3

Torry_Quine wrote: »

As I said before,OK maybe that is the wrong phrase to use. I just meant that other than my OH I would only show my naked body to someone medically.

You really don't need to feel sorry for me in any way I just was unaware that some people cosider it normal to behave like this in front of others

You weren't aware what is normal in this country? Did you grow up in a commune or cult?

Torry_Quine

Fang wrote: »

You weren't aware what is normal in this country? Did you grow up in a commune or cult?

No I grew up in a very normal loving home, maybe it's an age thing but I have always hated communal changing rooms and won't use them and you may be surprised but I'm not the only one.

tomandgary

i havent read the whole thread, just the first post

just to let you know strippers wont let you have sex with them, i've tried it before with my partner, gary.

Running_Horse

I suspect male and female audiences experience strippers differently.

As for the OP. This is a relationship issue, not a stripping issue.

Running_Horse

tomandgary wrote: »

just to let you know strippers wont let you have sex with them, i've tried it before with my partner, gary.

Arf. A not particularly good looking friend once complimented a stripper on her skill and performance, and was terrified when she said "carry on, it's working".

jcr16

i don't have a problem with strippers as each one to their own. i'd never stop hubby going, but i'm not sure i'd be happy about it.but dishonestly and lie i do have a prob with that.

Having said that hubby is not interested, he made me cry the other day with pride. a group of his work mates are having a leaving do and going to a strip club. these guys spend about £400 a time when they go ! on what i don't know. maybe i'm nieve. most are in a relationship and hide it from their partners. ( that really upsets me, but i'm not gonna say anythign, and i hate knowing what i know ) they were trying to get my hubby to go. he said no thanks i'm not interested. they were saying oh won't ur wife let u etc. and he said Why should i pay for it when my wife can do it for free, i want to spend my free time with my wife and family and i'd rather spend that sort of money on my family. i was choked. i thought it was fab him standing up to his mates.:T

but i think it also down to respect. if you know your partner is dead against something like this and it needs to be hidden that someone is going then it totally wrong. No one in a relationship should stop thier partner fomr doing what they want, but surely out of love and respect for the other person if you knew it was gonna cuase distress or upset then surely it not worth doing.

vroombroom

I used to work with lapdancers and strippers:eek: both male and female. I worked behind the bar. Nekkid men:D and the girls were gorgeous - really used to look after themselves.

I've also seen my friends nekkid when we go on holiday:eek::D

the world would be a happier place if everyone got nekkid once in a while:cool:

Lunar_Eclipse

dmg24 wrote: »

If your children can see the !!!!!! mags, then they are on too low a shelf and the retailer should be reported. I assume that you mean younger children?

A child only needs to look up to see these magazines! The top shelf is not that high; my 9 and 11 year olds see their contents easily. I wouldn't describe them as 'younger children' but adult magazines are clearly inappropriate for anyone of that age.

I wanted to add that it's not only !!!!!!. A lot of men's magazines, such as FHM, GQ and the like, should be treated the same, from the 'wanna f*@k me' cover images to a lot of the juvenile and sexualised content. In the interests of being complete, I realise the same could probably be said of some 'women's mags' and that naked models could be male or female. It's unnecessary all the same.

euronorris

Torry_Quine wrote: »

No I grew up in a very normal loving home, maybe it's an age thing but I have always hated communal changing rooms and won't use them and you may be surprised but I'm not the only one.

What do you do if they are only communal changing rooms on offer (like at the sports hall I use)? Change in the toilet?

I'm surprised it bothers you that much. Are you more concerned with seeing others naked/half naked, or them seeing you naked/half naked?

The Dutch aren't shy. Regularly end up chatting to naked Dutch women in the changing rooms. Still end up having to switch to English, but there's no shame in being naked.

Torry, if your views are tied into a religious belief, then have you ever considered that we aren't born with clothes on, or even fur, so perhaps God never intended anyone to cover up other than for warmth purposes?