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Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! 2

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  • dizziblonde
    dizziblonde Posts: 4,276 Forumite
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    Aimless wrote: »
    If it was the post I'm thinking of, which I can't find to reread, I read it as a badly phrased attempt to say, that they really hoped that we didn't lose any more posters along the way, and that it was sad that there had to be activity over there, as it meant someone else had a loss. I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels sad to see someone from here pop up as the last poster on that thread, because I know what it usually means for them.

    That wasn't the post I was getting at - like I say, I had the post half-typed a few days ago when someone complained that the people who miscarry upset them.

    I incidentally duck in and out of lots of threads, including the miscarriage one - just purely because I've got the experience of a particularly messy "is it or isn't it... oh heck it's twins... oh no it's over" long drawn-out scan process!
    Little miracle born April 2012, 33 weeks gestation and a little toughie!
  • Aimless
    Aimless Posts: 924 Forumite
    Oh dear, I do apologise to whowants2brich for mistakenly pointing to his post, it was the only one I'd read lately on the subject, and I was trying to help. I do hope he'll be back. Without knowing who you are referring to, it is hard to comment, but is it possible that they did mean it in the way I put, that they feel very sad for people who don't make it through the first weeks. It doesn't necessarily mean they think they shouldn't post about it?
  • Ginvzt - 2nd December (12+1, clinic) 7nd December (12+6, NHS) (EDD 17th June)
    Kaemi - 5th December (EDD 18th June)
    Cheebie- 5th December (EDD 18TH June)
    Triangle - 6th December (EDD 18th June)
    museumworker - 13th December (EDD 23rd June)
    LJane74 - no scan date yet (EDD 18th June)
    lixi - no scan date yet (EDD 20 June 2012)
    whowants2brich - 28th December (EDD 2nd July 2012)
    thrifty-gal26 - 4th November (7+4) 8th December (12+3) (EDD 18th June)
    RebekahR - No scan date yet (EDD 25th July)
    BikerChick - 22nd Dec (EDD 5th July)
    silly moo - 1st December (6+5), 10th January (EDD 22nd July)
    Janienewcastle - 23rd December (EDD 29th June 2012)
    Nikkikayj - 12th December (EDD 29th June 2012)
    bobble_hat - no scan date yet (EDD 2nd July 2012)
    robyn297 - no scan date yet (EDD 22 July 2012)
    Being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect, you've just decided to see beyond the imperfection.....
  • List updated as I now have a scan date, just before Christmas so if all is well at that point family and very close friends will be told.

    Now 9+3, still no sickness which does worry me a little - am I still pregnant? I've had no bleedy so there is no reason to worry I keep telling myself.
    I have midwife appoint on Tue morning, will have have to have another session of time off work for bloods/test?
    Being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect, you've just decided to see beyond the imperfection.....
  • Hi all, emergency scan today, pregnancy halted at 8 weeks, need to let nature take its course now, can one of you lovely lot remove my name from the list please? Fingers crossed for all of you for sticky beans x x
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  • Kira000
    Kira000 Posts: 1,983 Forumite
    Bobble_Hat
    Sorry to hear your news. Look after yourself. Hugs.

    Thought i would take care of the list for you whilst passing through..


    Ginvzt - 2nd December (12+1, clinic) 7nd December (12+6, NHS) (EDD 17th June)
    Kaemi - 5th December (EDD 18th June)
    Cheebie- 5th December (EDD 18TH June)
    Triangle - 6th December (EDD 18th June)
    museumworker - 13th December (EDD 23rd June)
    LJane74 - no scan date yet (EDD 18th June)
    lixi - no scan date yet (EDD 20 June 2012)
    whowants2brich - 28th December (EDD 2nd July 2012)
    thrifty-gal26 - 4th November (7+4) 8th December (12+3) (EDD 18th June)
    RebekahR - No scan date yet (EDD 25th July)
    BikerChick - 22nd Dec (EDD 5th July)
    silly moo - 1st December (6+5), 10th January (EDD 22nd July)
    Janienewcastle - 23rd December (EDD 29th June 2012)
    Nikkikayj - 12th December (EDD 29th June 2012)
    robyn297 - no scan date yet (EDD 22 July 2012)
    Married 13/03/10 #1 DD born 13/01/12!!

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  • Bobble_hat sorry to read your news. Big hugs.

    I have been lurking lurking lurking here for about 8 weeks.. didn't want to actually confirm as there are people on MSE who know me in real life and also I just felt a wee bit nervy of jinxing it.

    But I had a second scan yesterday and they put me at 13 +2. The last scan they said i was 3 days earlier which gave a EDD of 12 June and they've kept me at that even though officially know based on 13+2 I would be 9 June.

    So, I'm graduating to the next thread.

    Best of luck to everyone!
  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
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    Had my first scan yesterday so I can stop hiding as Kaemi and use my 'real' MSE identity. Scan went really well, baby wouldn't stop kicking, and was measuring exactly on 12 weeks. Next scan is on my birthday. DH is all teary and excited and can't stop looking at the baby picture, it all seems really real now. Best of luck to everyone in the first trimester.
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  • twigpig
    twigpig Posts: 1,210 Forumite
    Welcome kaemi and congrats! I remember you from the TTC thread and your scan is on my due date, so we'll both be wishing away the time between now and then :)
    TTC #3..........
  • Steel_2
    Steel_2 Posts: 1,649 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Can I ask a very quick question of you all?

    Generally, how soon after conception can a test kit give a positive? I've had a negative test tonight but am 8 days late (never late) and have been experiencing mild symptoms that could be early pregnancy for about 10-14 days.

    Should I wait another week and try again? The reason I'm concerned is with the silly season approaching if I am pregnant I need to lay off alcohol and certain foods and if I'm not I'd like to find out what's going on soon rather than sitting worrying until the new year.
    "carpe that diem"
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