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  • hulagirl79
    hulagirl79 Posts: 352 Forumite
    I amjen - well i got in work early this am (6.45) to tell my boss, i explained the situation with a bit of back story and she said "congratulations that's great news, we had problems with our two, so i understand. We will sit down in next few weeks to discuss things" i am stunned as i thought she would not be happy. Oh well now that is something less to worry about.
    Hope everyone is well. X
  • hi guys, sorry to say that myself and OH are leaving the thread for now. scan showed no baby and blood tests show she lost it a little while ago :(
    good luck to the rest of you and I hope we'll be back soon x
  • ddebski_us
    ddebski_us Posts: 1,107 Forumite
    hi guys, sorry to say that myself and OH are leaving the thread for now. scan showed no baby and blood tests show she lost it a little while ago :(
    good luck to the rest of you and I hope we'll be back soon x

    So so sorry for you both. Take good care of yourself and your OH - she'll need you more than ever.

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  • hulagirl79
    hulagirl79 Posts: 352 Forumite
    Crispy chris- so sorry to hear your news, look after each other and hope to see you on here again soon x
  • pigpen
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    Hopefuly next time you will say Chris.. Don't be afraid to let her know you are sad too. There is a miscarriage thread too if either of you feel you may benefit.

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  • Winnie_in_Pooh
    Winnie_in_Pooh Posts: 1,176 Forumite
    So sorry to hear your news Crispy Chris :( take care of each other xx
  • bella2121
    bella2121 Posts: 1,558 Forumite
    hi guys, sorry to say that myself and OH are leaving the thread for now. scan showed no baby and blood tests show she lost it a little while ago :(
    good luck to the rest of you and I hope we'll be back soon x

    You and OH take care xx

    Been back to the docs today have been given more laxatives hope they work and different anti sickness pills to try :) 3 more sleeps til scan day I cant wait, am feelin a little nervous but excited too.

    have a good weekend everyone :)
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  • Loonytoons
    Loonytoons Posts: 866 Forumite
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    Sorry for your loss Crispy Chris

    Finally heard from the midwife only to be told to phone the surgery for an appointment for next Friday! I said i'd be 10 weeks by then and she said, "Oh gosh, we really do need to see you" Well i saw the doctor at 6 weeks and have been waiting ever since for them to phone me!! Phoned the doctors who said the midwife is fully booked so could i make it the following week, i'd be 11 weeks then! In the end i spoke to the midwife again and she's coming to my house next Thursday so i'll be 9+6, much better :)
  • SVsandy
    SVsandy Posts: 398 Forumite
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    I've just come back from having my first scan. I am exactly 9 weeks today. So that means January's bleed was a real period and not implantation.

    The policy here is that if you've had a scan after 8 weeks you don't get another dating scan. The nurse was so nice she asked us if we were having nuchal scan and we said no. She said that she would make a notes on our paperwork saying that we did want nuchal which would mean we would need to come back in again for a 12 week scan as 9 weeks is too early to do the reading. She said it wasn't fair that Nottinghamshire don't allow a second dating scan. She advised when we come in for that scan we just have the scan and say we'd changed our mind and that we didn't want nuchal.
    I hope that all makes sense.

    Basically we get to go again in 3 weeks and see a baby shape rather than the blob we saw today!
  • Loonytoons
    Loonytoons Posts: 866 Forumite
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    SVsandy wrote: »
    I've just come back from having my first scan. I am exactly 9 weeks today. So that means January's bleed was a real period and not implantation.

    The policy here is that if you've had a scan after 8 weeks you don't get another dating scan. The nurse was so nice she asked us if we were having nuchal scan and we said no. She said that she would make a notes on our paperwork saying that we did want nuchal which would mean we would need to come back in again for a 12 week scan as 9 weeks is too early to do the reading. She said it wasn't fair that Nottinghamshire don't allow a second dating scan. She advised when we come in for that scan we just have the scan and say we'd changed our mind and that we didn't want nuchal.
    I hope that all makes sense.

    Basically we get to go again in 3 weeks and see a baby shape rather than the blob we saw today!

    Glad your scan went well. I'm 9 weeks today as well :j Can't wait until my 12 week scan, i too am thinking the bleed i had in January may have been an implantation bleed so we'll have to wait and see :)
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