Old style daily 24/01/2011

bramble1

I'd kick him out and make him find somewhere to live now, he's not being fair to you, so why should you let him stay in your house? if he must stay charge rent, charge for the water he uses, the electricty he uses don't let him eat your food, use anything of yours. Although i'm a ***** and like to get even. I'd change the locks whilst he was out at work... again people on the families board will probably be less hot headed and more sensible than me.

OH is still at work, I tried working out for a bit, i'm so unfit!! so going to start small all over again. Wish i still had my cross trainer I'm still mad the scales went up 3lbs over night!

elfen

niclou don't do a thing for him, he's the one doing this, not you! And I'd charge him rent.

Coeliac....be prepared to check most, if not all labels, and say bye bye to bread and pasta (unless it's gluten-free, and most of it is icky - it's VERY stodgy, and has more calories) I'm gluten AND lactose intolerant, so every time I go shopping I stick to what I know and don't deviate (or try to) You can get GF stock cubes, boullion and that, 9it's very hit and miss as to what your supermarket has in. I pretty much live off porridge, fruit, veg and meat (Flanaghans..think that's how its spelt..is gluten free and sold in Asda and Tesco...porridge oats)

donny-gal

Evening All

First of all ((hugs)) to niclou and I agree with everyone else. I would empty the kitchen cupboards of all food of any value, or anything he would eat, and hide it in your own bedroom, and put a lock on the door.

Make sure you get your own bank account if you have not done so already, and move all money out of the joint, and move the DD's to the new one, and make sure your wages go into the new one too. Yes be a first class B. The other boards will help with all this. Ensure anything you have bought him is also locked away in your room too. Now is time to look after you. Jayward or NPM maybe able to help you with your diagnosis too.

Quiet day here, windy and some rain!! Needed the heater on in the house:eek::eek::eek: Been to Lidl for a few bits. B was 2 eggs on toast, L was crispbread and cheese, D LO roast chicken with brocolli, peas, potatoes.

R-R ((hugs)) to you too, I've PM'd you.

Take care all. DG

bargainbird

nic1 - I would too down tools....don't do it unless its for you. Most of all tho stay strong lovey x

nic1lou2

Thank you all for the help.

I definately need to get pro-active. I cant lock him out of the house though as it is in joint names. I am not sure what he is intending doing about his wages and the joint acount but will know on Friday when he gets paid. It is too late to get my salary paid into a different account for this month now but will go see the bank this week to open an account in my name and transfer the mortgage DD to that. I only work part time though and there is no chance of me increasing my hours at the moment so I am not sure if I could afford to keep the house on, on my own. I would really struggle but really want to try.

Oh by the way Halight thank you so much that is literally the first time I have laughed this year!!!!

x

jackieglasgow

Just caught up with the weekend. Hugs and good wishes for Topsy's brother and DF, and their family.

Adelight, there is no excuse for him hitting you. I hope you are OK and looking after yourself. xxx

Lily_The_Legend

nic1lou2 - sounds like your husband is acting like a total !!!!!! There's been some good advice here already, so I won't add to it, I'll just send you more (((hugs))) and if you ever need to talk you know where we are.

mrsmortenharket

nic1lou2...he is an utter t0sser. I am very angry on your behalf xxx

taplady

halight wrote: »

You could even show him my facebook page and say this is my new bit of stuff!!! he is a lot better in bed than you! Im moveing him in at the weekend and pack your bags you small w!!*y man:rotfl::rotfl:

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halight - great idea!:D:rotfl::T

you are soooo funny!

Rowan9

Nic - been there re the exH staying in another room and the awful sick feeling when he was due home - we had no debts but he was a total !!!!!!. PM me if you'd like. Go to solicitor. Keep your distance. Keep strong. Big (((hugs)))
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