Broken down and very scared

dancingfairy

Hang on - could you get a taxi to the train station and then get a train perhaps? your biggest expense is travel - get that sorted and you'll be fine - how many days do you work?
df

MrsTinks

No you can't claim on the insurance for what he's taken as it's 50% his... unless you can prove any of it is yours and even then if the police isn't interested the insurance company won't be either...
Do you know where he's !!!!!!ed off to? If you did could you find some large male friends or a very bossy female friend to go and ask him for your laptop? he will find it a lot harder to ignore someone on his doorstep... failing that I'd go down the small claims court... it's not hugely expensive but if it comes out in your favour he'll have a lot of trouble trying to ignore you

RAS

little_miss_T wrote: »

i will get the deposit back because it was my mam who paid it for us.. and the admin fee. she said that i can keep it if i need it. so thats a bonus.

You need to make absolutely sure of this as if your ex has cleaned out the bank aco!!!!, do not be surprised if he tries to get hold of the deposit. You need to write registered post to the agents and landlord and make sure they know who to pay.

little_miss_T

my BIG brother is back tomorrow.. he doesnt know what has been going on yet but he will be very helpful.. i may even get my money back!! xx

RAS

dancingfairy wrote: »

new SOA:
rent 425
df

What is rent doing in the SOA?

If the tenancy terminates on 25 October, then this months rent was paid on September 25.

As long as the OP leaves on October 24, she does not have to pay rent this month. When the deposit comes back she can sort out new accomodation.

little_miss_T

travel to work it the 80 bus pass.. as it is for the bus train metro and freey.. i need to get a bus then metro then bus to work and if i did that without a bus pass it would get expensive. i work 3 on 3 off x

little_miss_T

RAS wrote: »

What is rent doing in the SOA?

If the tenancy terminates on 25 October, then this months rent was paid on September 25.

As long as the OP leaves on October 24, she does not have to apy rent this month. Whe the deposit comes back she can sort out ned accomodation.

this would be based on if i stayed in the flat.. i wouldnt have any of the bills if i didnt.. no EDF sky rent insurance.. only TV (which i really do want to keep cos its my pride and joy)

so it looks like moving back in with mammy and daddy is a good option.

themull1

what have his mam and dad/relatives said about this?

little_miss_T

RAS wrote: »

You need to make absolutely sure of this as if your ex has cleaned out the bank aco!!!!, do not be surprised if he tries to get hold of the deposit. You need to write registered post to the agents and landlord and make sure they know who to pay.

i will go to the estate agents in the morning and explain what has happened.

little_miss_T

themull1 wrote: »

what have his mam and dad/relatives said about this?

my mam cried herself to sleep last night cos she was so upset for me.. dad is furious that he has done this to me... im his little angel and no one should hurt me.

i am very lucky to have such a wonderful family around me. they will support me all the way.. like i said my big brother does not know about it as he had stuff to deal with and i did not wait to bother him with it but he will be back tomorrow so will talk to him about it then.