My boyfriend has dumped me

Katyag

Toomuchdebt wrote:

I don't think Mr Right exists I thought he was the one-just goes to show how stupid I am.

I know how you feel, my bf finished with me 3 weeks ago and i really felt he was the one too. And right now it feels like i will never meet anyone else! Dont want anyone else really anyway!!!

Rachie_B

((hugs)) its hard,but you will get through it

chin up,look after yourself and the kids

xx

dazbfc

not been a member for long but hate to see posts like this,

Hope everything works out for you

MushyPeas

((((TOOMUCHDEBT)))) thinking of you, I'm so sorry to hear your news. Fingers crossed it all works out.

Toomuchdebt

Thanks all I really appreciate it.

smokybabe

Sorry to hear your news, lots of virual hugs to you

piglet6

Lots of hugs from me, too, Toomuchdebt :grouphug: - really sorry to hear the news, and hope that you and your kids can get through it together, by supporting each other...

Piglet

WelshWoofer

It's really sh***ty when this happens but remember you picked yourself up after your divorce years ago and you can do it again.
Have yourself a good week of crying, ranting and feeling sorry for yourself and then try to put it behind you. Get a bottle of wine/box of chocs (whatever makes you feel better) and wallow for a little bit then try to get on with life as best you can.

I've been through it myself and you think the world has ended but it does get better.
You can do it - it'll be difficult and things will always remind you of him but you are a better person and can move on. Give it some time.

Thinking of you - I think most of us have been through this at some time or another and can all sympathise.

Good Luck and Take Care

pms

Sorry to hear about this, like most people I'm sending virtual hugs your way.

Keep your chin up not just for yourself but for your children as well.

Chrismojam

Willsnarf1983 wrote:

Ok whilst whats happened is a bad enough and i am sorry that he decided that he couldn't make things work i get really fed up with the man slating that goes on at times. what might have happened to you to you louise is despicable (sp) but it doesn't mean we are all like this. You are trying to encourage the OP to slag of the bloke and ruin his reputation within his inner circle because he simply decided that things weren't working. The guy hardly cheated did he, he hardly stole, he didn't beat her up, he did't beat the kids up and he's not respsonsible for her debts so why the malice?

Will

Fair enough Will....I think it's just the done thing to try and empathise.....and without getting to the end of all of the posts, not everyone will have realised that he didn't owe the debt, didn't cheat etc..:o

To TooMuchDebt.....I am sorry to that you are going through this now....and I know this sounds rather clinical.........but better now than in a few years (or more) time when you and your kids were far more used to having him around?

I think he's just got cold feet and bottled it.....he's with someone for 7 months.she has kids from a previous relationship.........it is alot to take on.......and before I get lambasted.......I know there are lots of lovely guys out there who would.....but there are also alot of others who play at the idea and then realise what is invloved....and back out....

I think the moving away was the first sign.....the staying last week was to see if whether or not he had made the right decision....

I would be the last person to tell you to take more time in future....I would be a COMPLETE hyporcrite if I did....both OH's have been long term...and I got together with both pretty much straight away...Do I sound desporate???:p