My boyfriend has dumped me

Little_Miss_Winner

awww babe, were you together long?

Toomuchdebt

7 months-he moved in after a month(yes I know that was too short) and until we had that huge fight we were happy-we argued-who doesn't?But we always made up.I know 7 months isn't long in the grand scheme of things-my ex husband and I were together 12 years before we split,but it still hurts just as much

pivotalgubbins

I wouldn't want to comment on your circumstances, as it is always hard to judge a situation when only seeing one side.

I hope it all works out though... keep your chin up in the meantime and concentrate even more on your debt-free goal to keep you occupied!

Dolly_Smith

Toomuchdebt wrote:

7 months-he moved in after a month(yes I know that was too short) and until we had that huge fight we were happy-we argued-who doesn't?But we always made up.I know 7 months isn't long in the grand scheme of things-my ex husband and I were together 12 years before we split,but it still hurts just as much

It can be too short but my OH and I moved in after three weeks and here we are 10 years later. The more likely thing is that he wasn't the right person for you - not particularly helpful to hear I know but in time you'll probably start to realise it.

But I'm not trying to diminish the pain you're feeling - we've all been heartbroken by someone in this way. I once cried for a month over a bloke who was an absolute prat!

:beer:

Bambywamby

Awww bless...been there, done that.

We have all been heartbroken and felt like nobody on this earth will make us feel so (loved/wanted/happy) again...but we do end up finding someone even better...and in time you end up seeing what a total numpty he was anyway.

Mr Right wouldn't leave you feeling like this - he may love you, but he loves himself much more.

Try and keep your chin up - you can do this - coz you're 1000 times better than him.:T

Hugs Bams xx

Toomuchdebt

I don't think Mr Right exists I thought he was the one-just goes to show how stupid I am.

Willsnarf1983

Louise003 wrote:

. Tell his family, his friends - let them know exactly what type of a person he is.

My heart goes out to you and the children - nuff love and big hugs to you all.

Ok whilst whats happened is a bad enough and i am sorry that he decided that he couldn't make things work i get really fed up with the man slating that goes on at times. what might have happened to you to you louise is despicable (sp) but it doesn't mean we are all like this. You are trying to encourage the OP to slag of the bloke and ruin his reputation within his inner circle because he simply decided that things weren't working. The guy hardly cheated did he, he hardly stole, he didn't beat her up, he did't beat the kids up and he's not respsonsible for her debts so why the malice?

Will

Dolly_Smith

Toomuchdebt wrote:

I don't think Mr Right exists I thought he was the one-just goes to show how stupid I am.

It's not stupid - it's hope! and without that we're nothing...

savingmum

So sorry to hear this :grouphug: get in touch if you need to talk more

oops_a_daisy

awwww toomuchdebt Im so sorry you are having a hard time. I know it can be difficult with kids involved and upset too. Sorry but going to come out with some cliches but keep yourself busy ( in a MSE way of course ) take time for yourself - do not brood over whether or not he will come back... think I need to start taking my own advice here. Its all raw just now and no body can say anything that will make you feel better. Keep your good friends close by and try to be strong for the kids. All the best and big :grouphug: