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My boyfriend has dumped me

so I will not be having any money from him to help with my debts.Actually my debts are the last thing I can be bothered with right now as I am heartbroken.So are my kids.
Debts Jan 2014 £20,108.34 :eek:

EF #70 £0/£1000

SW 1st 4lbs
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  • QueenB.
    QueenB. Posts: 1,083 Forumite
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    :grouphug: I am so sorry to hear your news toomuchdebt have you got plenty of family and friends around you to help you and your kids?
    Success means having to worry about every thing in the world......EXCEPT MONEY. Johnny Cash

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  • yung
    yung Posts: 700 Forumite
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    the swine, sory to hear that my thought are with you and your family
    Yung
    Early Retiree debt & stress free. and Joined the SKI club:j

  • chardonnay_2
    chardonnay_2 Posts: 2,201 Forumite
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    are they half his debts? if so harrass him at every opportunity - tell his mum / family/ friends that he is shirking his debts and get the csa involved
    :love: married to the man of my dreams! 9-08-09:love:
  • wigginsmum
    wigginsmum Posts: 4,150 Forumite
    I'm really sorry - sending you a hug.
    The ability of skinny old ladies to carry huge loads is phenomenal. An ant can carry one hundred times its own weight, but there is no known limit to the lifting power of the average tiny eighty-year-old Spanish peasant grandmother.
  • So sorry to hear that :grouphug:
  • juliejim
    juliejim Posts: 7,944 Forumite
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    :grouphug: :grouphug: Sorry to hear that - try and keep you chin up.

    Hope you've got lots of people around you for support but we're always here.
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  • Hey there....

    We're all here for you - so sorry to hear about your boyfriend!!!

    Try to keep your chin up honey!!

    xx
    Joined September 2006: £18800.00 in debt:eek:
    21/11/06 - £16953.04, :eek:
    DFD - Sept 2009:T proud to be dealing with my debt

    :j £2 coin saving club: 21/11/06 £0:j
  • rkh001
    rkh001 Posts: 324 Forumite
    So sorry to hear that. P.M. me if you wish to unload your feelings etc.

    Can't log onto MSE from work but can when I get home at 5.

    Thinking of you. Hugs.
  • LittleL_4
    LittleL_4 Posts: 714 Forumite
    Aww hun that's awful. It's a horrible feeling but you'll get there with help from your friends, family and kids ( and from your extended family here)
    Chin up...

    Little L
    x
    Debt 28/12/06 £26,467
    £20 grocery challenge per week
    Savings £400
    £2 coins - £8.00
    DMP £357 pcm (CCCs) commenced 1/10/06
    DFD :think:
    proud to be dealing with my debts
  • LJD1_2
    LJD1_2 Posts: 2,173 Forumite
    Just wanted to add my hugs to all the rest. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    January budget
    Nothing left!
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