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My boyfriend has dumped me

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  • Brassic
    Brassic Posts: 557 Forumite
    Awww, big hugs coming to you from here too. Hoping you've got lots of friends and family to support you too.
    Debts @ lightbulb moment (13/06/2006) - £59,842.23 :eek: All commercial debts now clear!!! :T Debts April - £20,000 to family (incl extra £10k borrowed for house deposit). DFD - Aug 2014
    Proud to be dealing with my debts
    Goal of the month - £500 on groceries for family of 5 - Apr 2011 - £620! :( May - £454.85 so far.
  • James240
    James240 Posts: 16,391 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    sorry to here about this hun :grouphug: keep ur chin up as u will have plenty of support on here x
    Savings Total so far for 2023: £8,062.58
  • Mirtos
    Mirtos Posts: 728 Forumite
    Oh honey. I'm sorry. Have a good cry :cry: and a bit of a rant, and then hopefully you'll feel a bit better. :grouphug: Hugs from me.xxx
    Official Debt Free Wannabe Nerd Club member 095! Debt Now:
    M&S £5000 £2071.49 - 3.9% |Cahoot Loan £8646.96 £7453.24 - 5.8%| Barclays OD £2250.00 £991.99 - 0% Halifax Card £1620.60 - 0% Savings: £927.59
    Grand Total = £22,540 £11,209.73 :eek:Total paid off since 31st May '06 = £11,330.27 :T Semi-DFD Dec'07?
    Savings for temporary unemployment fund: £763.05 @ 8%, £164.54@ 4% Total savings: £927.59

    £18k Challenge £18,934.21 £11,209.73 to go!
    Proud to be dealing with my debt.
  • chevalier
    chevalier Posts: 7,937 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Really sorry to hear your news. Does his family know about the debt, and any that he owes? If not then sorrowfully I would tell them now, after all he is leaving THEIR grand children up the creek, so may be they might help with baby sitting or in other ways?

    Did he say why? Big hugs from me (((((hugs)))))
    chev
    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    hugs from me too awww xxx
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • lil'H
    lil'H Posts: 514 Forumite
    Oh honey, so sorry, keep smiling for your kids, you'll all get there. If nly they could create a boyfriend patch, like nicotine patches so you can wean yourself off slowly!

    :grouphug:

    lil'H
    Riding out the receession.........
  • anniestar
    anniestar Posts: 2,600 Forumite
    I'm so sorry. Huge hugs and love.
    Blind as you run...aware you were staring at the sun.

    And when no hope was left inside on that starry starry night.

    :A Level 42- the reason I exist. :A
  • djdymond
    djdymond Posts: 377 Forumite
    awww hun im sorry to hear that. and i agree, have a good cry. xxx
  • foxybabe
    foxybabe Posts: 752 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    Ditto tho all the above, (((((xxx)))))
    Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we're here we should dance....
  • Hugs to add to all the rest.

    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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