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My boyfriend has dumped me

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  • abbecer
    abbecer Posts: 2,177 Forumite
    Spend some quality time with your kids to help them through as well.

    Love and hugs

    Rebecca x
  • Toomuchdebt
    Toomuchdebt Posts: 2,133 Forumite
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    It's not his debt-all mine.They're not his kids either.But he was a better Dad to them than their real Dad is.I'm heartbroken.He just said he wants to be friends.I don't understand how someone can want to marry me 3 months ago and then finish with me.We had a huge row back in August after which he moved 50 miles away and said he needed time and that he loved me but wasn't sure about whether he wants to be with me or not but he stayed here 6 nights out of 7 last week so I thought things were getting better and then yesterday he told me he had made his decision and he just wanted to be friends.I can't stop crying :( My kids are really upset too.They love him.
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  • Nothing I can say will help, I kinda rely on my boyfriend for money but probably shouldn't stay with him as he's no good for me.

    It will get easier I promise xxxxxxx
  • Verbatim
    Verbatim Posts: 4,831 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear your news. Hope you're doing OK
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  • ole_2
    ole_2 Posts: 24 Forumite
    hi big hugs coming you way
  • Wanted to send you a hug too :grouphug:
  • moozie_2
    moozie_2 Posts: 3,063 Forumite
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    So sorry sweetheart, thinking of you and your little ones xx
    Leason learnt :beer:
  • loopyloulou_3
    loopyloulou_3 Posts: 1,269 Forumite
    oh hun, sending hugs from me too.
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  • big huggles to you hun - i can imagine it was a terrible shock - esp if you thought things had been improving. i guess you are inconsolable right now - but pls dont despair - if your b/f didnt want to stay for whatever reason it's better that he leaves rather than continuing to lead you on and rather than your relationship falling apart day by day until you both hate each other.

    also, perhaps that there is a chance of a reconciliation in the future.......try and keep in mind that everything happens for a reason and that you will get over this and come out of the other side far stronger than u were before.

    anything i can do to help (i doubt it!) feel free to let me know - even if it's just to rant and let off steam.

    take care.
    carve your name in red. the silver slipping and slicing. rose petals blossom and fall. soul steals away.


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