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My boyfriend has dumped me
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Spend some quality time with your kids to help them through as well.
Love and hugs
Rebecca x0 -
It's not his debt-all mine.They're not his kids either.But he was a better Dad to them than their real Dad is.I'm heartbroken.He just said he wants to be friends.I don't understand how someone can want to marry me 3 months ago and then finish with me.We had a huge row back in August after which he moved 50 miles away and said he needed time and that he loved me but wasn't sure about whether he wants to be with me or not but he stayed here 6 nights out of 7 last week so I thought things were getting better and then yesterday he told me he had made his decision and he just wanted to be friends.I can't stop crying
My kids are really upset too.They love him.
Debts Jan 2014 £20,108.34 :eek:
EF #70 £0/£1000
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Nothing I can say will help, I kinda rely on my boyfriend for money but probably shouldn't stay with him as he's no good for me.
It will get easier I promise xxxxxxx0 -
hi big hugs coming you way0
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Wanted to send you a hug too :grouphug:0
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So sorry sweetheart, thinking of you and your little ones xxLeason learnt :beer:0
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big huggles to you hun - i can imagine it was a terrible shock - esp if you thought things had been improving. i guess you are inconsolable right now - but pls dont despair - if your b/f didnt want to stay for whatever reason it's better that he leaves rather than continuing to lead you on and rather than your relationship falling apart day by day until you both hate each other.
also, perhaps that there is a chance of a reconciliation in the future.......try and keep in mind that everything happens for a reason and that you will get over this and come out of the other side far stronger than u were before.
anything i can do to help (i doubt it!) feel free to let me know - even if it's just to rant and let off steam.
take care.carve your name in red. the silver slipping and slicing. rose petals blossom and fall. soul steals away.0
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