My boyfriend has dumped me

Gemmzie

:grouphug:

Chin up Keep going, what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger, xx

Imelda

Not much I can say toomuchdebt, I just want to add my hugs to the rest.

Littlemiss-lotsofdebt

Sorry to hear your sad news xxx It must be the season for these kinds of things as me and Mr LMLOD aren't getting on very well at the moment and I've had my friend in tears today after finding out her b/f has been texting 'saucy' messages to another woman.

Have a hot chocolate with me xx

jet77

:grouphug:

Take no notice of the nasty man.:mad:

If you feel it would be beneficial for your children to have a relationship with him then let them carry on but him saying that he just wants to be friends is just mean.:mad:

It doesn't give you anything to go on - no concrete reason just blah de blah. I think may be it would be best to focus on your blessings and not waste your time giving him too much more thought. Has he explained anything to your kids or just left it to you?

Whenever I'm sad I count my blessings e.g. beautiful children, good health, mse:T and all the fab peeps on here...... I have been known to write them all down and pin them by my bed so that I can see them before I go to bed and when I wake up in the morning. I also find chocolate icecream helps along with retail therapy - which may be the reason that I'm a regular on this board!!!! (so don't take my advice!!)

Anyway, we are all here for you(ven though everything feels like making you cry right now - that's probably a good thing :T coz at least you're not bottling it all up (but I wdn't let my kids see the extent of my upset).

I did hear a saying once that the best way to get over one man was to get under another....

did u smile?

Luv Jxxxxx:grouphug:

Toto

Sent a PM hon xx

Louise003

I am so sorry to hear about that. It happened to me last year. My bf was gambling away his salary and leaving me to pay for everything. HE then kicked me and our son, who was 2 at the time, out of the flat! I have been left to pay £35,000 of debts, around two thirds of which are his, and he doesn't help at all. Tell his family, his friends - let them know exactly what type of a person he is.

My heart goes out to you and the children - nuff love and big hugs to you all.

Toomuchdebt

Thanks all I appreciate the hugs.He's meant to be ringing me sometime this evening-not quite sure why-probably just to arrange to pick up his stuff.I have cried lots but still feel like I could cry more.It's the end of all our plans and dreams and it's affecting the kids too.I can't believe he would do this to us

loulouloulou_2

Hi honey...

is it definatly over? or do you think its just hes confused....you must be feeling awful and just want to sit in and cry, but you can do better than him honey... if he doesnt want to be with you then stuff him! Find seomone who deserves you!!!

xx;)

Toomuchdebt

I don't know...I have talked about the whole thing with a friend today and she said it sounded like he was just confused,but on the other hand I can't understand how you can say you love someone but not know if you want to be with them.I just don't get it.

ShakerSonicBen

Not been hear long but im really sorry to hear.

its never a nice feeling I'm sure the people here will try to somewhat make things better