my son wants to get custody for his son

tweetie_pie_3

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

But the Mum wasn't there? Surely the baby deserves to have one of his parent's there and as your Son has full PRR, then there was no reason for him not to be there.

Sorry but you slate baby's Mum and he doesn't do much better....any parent will tell you that nothing and no one will keep you from your child particularly when it's a tiny newborn in hospital.

nurse advised my son not to go up there as mum has care and control and she sed no he wanted to go up there and maybe i was to blame that he didnt because i said the nurses advised u against it and these are the proffessionals so u have to do as they say
but he rang hospital in the morning and spoke to grandmother he also rang up the hospital tonight to see if they gave baby calpol as mum said they did but he said i better check cos she sed it was prescribed before

Loopy_Girl

How is the baby? Has his allergic reaction settled down?

tweetie_pie_3

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

What on earth was your son doing hanging around and sleeping with someone like that? And as for these parties - how do you think that she met your Son?

You make out that she is this that and the other but he is no Snow White either. Perhaps if there weren't young men prepared to sleep with her then she wouldn't have such a chaotic lifestyle.

He went to school with her brother and he used to go round to see him as they are friends and his other friends that went down there
My son dont go to her flat at all now and she got her flat 2 months b4 baby was born so i think he knew her before the parties at flat and yes there were teenagers hanging around the house and yes my son was 1 of them but he came home at the time i stated and never was drunk of course wot teenager wouldnt hang around at a house with no rules most would and that is y they have problems

tweetie_pie_3

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

How is the baby? Has his allergic reaction settled down?

Thankyou for asking
He is now asleep son says thank god we have a swinging crib lol he hasnt got a temperature but still has a lump on his leg from where the injection went in

Loopy_Girl

tweetie_pie wrote: »

Thankyou for asking
He is now asleep son says thank god we have a swinging crib lol he hasnt got a temperature but still has a lump on his leg from where the injection went in

That all sounds perfectly normal...should be away in next few days. I'm glad he is okay and I am glad that his stay in hospital wasn't for anything more sinister.

tweetie_pie_3

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

What on earth was your son doing hanging around and sleeping with someone like that? And as for these parties - how do you think that she met your Son?

You make out that she is this that and the other but he is no Snow White either. Perhaps if there weren't young men prepared to sleep with her then she wouldn't have such a chaotic lifestyle.

I have never said my son is perfect what child is but what im saying is he knows neglect when he sees it
If there was nothing to worry about baby wouldnt be on the cp register as 1 poster said because her mum neglected her doesnt mean they are a bad mum so theres reasons why is has been put on there not from just hearsay and im not saying you posted that but im just saying there is plenty of info y is has been put on cp
and nothing of it is because of my son like the sw said there is nothing bad about my son on any paperwork

tweetie_pie_3

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

That all sounds perfectly normal...should be away in next few days. I'm glad he is okay and I am glad that his stay in hospital wasn't for anything more sinister.

Thankyou and we r so glad that it wasnt but as a family we jump every time the phone rings cos of how it has been for 9 weeks

Ms_Chocaholic

I've been reading the events on this thread from a distance and wonder why baby's father intends seeking a Residence Order as he has PR as it does not appear that baby's mother will have any objection to him caring for the baby.

Also do you think CSC are hoping father will seek RO to secure the baby's future to save them the cost of issuing care proceedings <just a thought>.

tweetie_pie_3

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

I thought it was your first appointment today woth Sols as that was the first one available? How could they have issued a letter already?

Sorry if i didnt make this clear
but i will try now
babies mum was issued a letter by sw only her to say she needs a solicitor to go with her to a meeting in august i think its the 24th
when i rang sw to tell her about baby being in hospital she sed i have got a letter 4 ur son and pick it up at family centre before u go to solcitors
My son read it and didnt understand it so passed it to solicitor who explained its basically mums final chance that is y its only her invited and said its good he hasnt got one cos that means they are giving u the go ahead to apply for residency cos if mum dont turn things around they will be looking at placing him into care so basically giving my son the go ahead in what they r doing and my sons solicitor has advised my son to go for contact which mum has let him tonight and as much as mum allows and to hold fire until mums meeting because fair play to her if she does turn this around and pull her socks up we are happy to give her this last chance as long as everyone is making sure baby is looked after

Ms_Chocaholic

tweetie_pie wrote: »

My son dont go to her flat at all now and she got her flat 2 months b4 baby was born so i think he knew her before the parties at flat and yes there were teenagers hanging around the house and yes my son was 1 of them but he came home at the time i stated and never was drunk of course wot teenager wouldnt hang around at a house with no rules most would and that is y they have problems

You are making out that your son is some angel - came home when he was asked, was never drunk oh he never got into any bother at all