I was wrong, how do I make it up? He didnt Lie!

Blackpool_Saver

There are faults on both side LM, ignore all those sexual references too, we are not living in the dark ages, one does not have to give a man sexual favours these days in the hope that they will treat us well.

Let him come around this time and then at a later date you can address how he sulks for ages and that it hurts you, use I and me words, not words directed at him.

I meant Gretna is all lovey and romance and this is not.

Blackpool_Saver

Littlemadam83 wrote: »

I havent gone on and on (apart from on here, which has helped me get it out of my system)!!! It was mentioned once in passing a week ago, and he brought it up yesterday. I have apologised to him and not gone into it all as he does not want to talk!!!

no you haven't and not doing is hard when a man ignores you, I am sure people who do this do it to wind the other person up.

pelirocco

Littlemadam83 wrote: »

I havent gone on and on (apart from on here, which has helped me get it out of my system)!!! It was mentioned once in passing a week ago, and he brought it up yesterday. I have apologised to him and not gone into it all as he does not want to talk!!!

? I thought it all started yesterday ??????????

Blackpool_Saver

Littlemadam83 wrote: »

Steak is a good idea

not for me chuck, I am a veggie:rotfl:

mikey72

You missed the end off when you quoted me

(you should change the thread title as well)
I was wrong, how do I make it up?

mikey72

pelirocco wrote: »

? I thought it all started yesterday ??????????

I think he gets reminded he's a bloke that didn't admit to using !!!!!! occasionally.

Blackpool_Saver

Clive_Woody wrote: »

then a steak and a BJ should sort things out nicely,

Disgusting, sexist remark

Littlemadam83

pelirocco wrote: »

? I thought it all started yesterday ??????????

Am about to go to lunch, we are looking to get a mortgage, our wedding presents are money towards a mortgage, so I literally said in passing that with our overdrafts etc and late payments (as he has done this before and I have never said anything) we will possibly get declined! It wasnt angry, it was literally this is what we need to do!!!!

jamespir

Littlemadam83 wrote: »

Hi guys,

I am really unsure where to go with this one. I will start with what happened.

He has a credit card that we used to put the honeymoon onto (0%). The 7th July is the date it needs to be in their account by and today off the back of nothing my husband said he had paid off the debt before work this morning.

I thought it odd as we both rush around in the morning, and something just didnt seem right.

I went home for lunch, had a look at the last caller redial and it was another number I had dialled days ago. Prior to this he told me had used the home phone, and I called another number just to check it was still working and the last call came up no problems.

He is adament he has paid it, he has lied to me in the past, but not about money. I really dont know what to do as the fact is telling me he hasn't. Also we are looking to get a mortgage and I know we wont be accepted because of late payments made.

Really not sure where to take this, we argued alot this weekend, and I dont think I could take anymore tears.

Any help and insight greatly appreciated.

Thank you xxx

are you that sad that you dont trust your husband and you have to check up on everything he does says

mikey72

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

Disgusting, sexist remark

Why sexist?
I wouldn't argue on disgusting, personally I don't think so, they're married adults, etc, but I can see it could be offensive on a public forum.

Possibly the best advice so far in fact.