I was wrong, how do I make it up? He didnt Lie!

Littlemadam83

mikey72 wrote: »

You missed the end off when you quoted me

(you should change the thread title as well)
I was wrong, how do I make it up?

Done and

Littlemadam83

mikey72 wrote: »

I think he gets reminded he's a bloke that didn't admit to using !!!!!! occasionally.

Not that he didnt admit, he denied and swore on my life which hurt

pelirocco

Littlemadam83 wrote: »

Am about to go to lunch, we are looking to get a mortgage, our wedding presents are money towards a mortgage, so I literally said in passing that with our overdrafts etc and late payments (as he has done this before and I have never said anything) we will possibly get declined! It wasnt angry, it was literally this is what we need to do!!!!

But he hadnt done it this time? .........or have i got it wrong ?

can anyone give me the abridged version of this thread .

pelirocco

Littlemadam83 wrote: »

Not that he didnt admit, he denied and swore on my life which hurt

maybe you should just call it a day ? do you really want to be dragging everything up for the next god knows how many years ?

mikey72

Littlemadam83 wrote: »

Not that he didnt admit, he denied and swore on my life which hurt

He's a man, it's !!!!!!.
You ask, he says no, at that you put the magazines back on top of the wardrode, (or nowadays close the browser, or put the dvd back in the draw, or you're really mean, swop it for the real snow white and the seven dwarfs).
What you don't do is keep on asking and increasing the stake until you make him swear on your life, as we all know what happens then.
(it's like those surprises, women don't really want to know about !!!!!!, so men are kind and don't tell them as it won't hurt them, whereas knowing will.
Or it may hurt us, and then that in turn will upset them as well. So it's for your own good either way)

duchy

Pelirocco -Oh don't be so ridiculous-All couples row-the smart ones learn from them and they help build their relationships

So LM *may* be a bit of a drama queen at times and her OH may be a sulker sometimes -they are newly weds and will find the middle ground that works for them -I doubt either of them are losers like you who think of running out on a relationship at the first sign of dissent

Blackpool_Saver

Littlemadam83 wrote: »

Not that he didnt admit, he denied and swore on my life which hurt

and this is the problem, he needs to earn the trust back and she needs to let him.

Blackpool_Saver

mikey72 wrote: »

Why sexist?
I wouldn't argue on disgusting, personally I don't think so, they're married adults, etc, but I can see it could be offensive on a public forum.

Possibly the best advice so far in fact.

Yes, let's all have sex and go to sleep happy, when we wake up tomorrow all the problems will have magically disappeared NOT

pelirocco

duchy wrote: »

Pelirocco -Oh don't be so ridiculous-All couples row-the smart ones learn from them and they help build their relationships

So LM *may* be a bit of a drama queen at times and her OH may be a sulker sometimes -they are newly weds and will find the middle ground that works for them -I doubt either of them are losers like you who think of running out on a relationship at the first sign of dissent

My point exactly , you need to read all my posts !! and maybe all hers tbh ............i think i was begining to lose the will to live by that post lol

sp1987

So he isn't allowed to watch !!!!!! or why would he lie?! (not a criticism of people who do or don't watch it, merely that he obviously gets something from it and you are aware of it), he isn't allowed for the phone to break when he calls to pay a bill....he isn't allowed to be annoyed for being accused of things (whilst at work too, so it probably disturbed him and his productivity). It is frankly irrelevant how guilty he may look, if he isn't! All very well having a chat asking to clarify things for your trust issues when he arrives home, but emailing accusatory messages would make me never want to come back.

I feel sorry for him. I used to have a boyfriend who used to check up after me, no matter what it was. It is the sort of thing that makes people give up on acting properly (who wants to be right to be told they are wrong anyway!). Don't be surprised if treating him like an a'hole makes him act like one. You say he is sulking like a child......see?

As for this thread, if you are going to preach about honesty, show him this. If you are not going to show him this....then maybe your soapbox could use a new owner.

As for the 'steak and a blow job' comment, I dare say that is more sexist against men than women. It implies that is what will make a man happy. Some men don't even like steak