I was wrong, how do I make it up? He didnt Lie!

pelirocco

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

Yes, let's all have sex and go to sleep happy, when we wake up tomorrow all the problems will have magically disappeared NOT

Maybe a lot of us don't actually see a problem ?

mikey72

Trust me on this, never, ever, show him the thread.

mikey72

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

Yes, let's all have sex and go to sleep happy, when we wake up tomorrow all the problems will have magically disappeared NOT

They certainly won't seen as bad.

(edit-- actually, the majority of them usually will have, thinking about it, and the happy bit is true as well--)

It's a lot harder to be upset with someone you have close contact with, but it's easy to be upset with someone you don't.

I always quote (or possibly paraphrase now) a signature I saw on here once, but I can't give credit as I can't remember the posters name, but it was

"Women need to be loved to have sex, men need to have sex to feel loved"

peachyprice

sp1987 wrote: »

It is the sort of thing that makes people give up on acting properly (who wants to be right to be told they are wrong anyway!). Don't be surprised if treating him like an a'hole makes him act like one. You say he is sulking like a child......see?

This is so very very true, what incentive is there to tell the truth when you get accused of lying regardless. It would certainly make me think 'Oh sod you'.

Clive_Woody

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

Yes, let's all have sex and go to sleep happy, when we wake up tomorrow all the problems will have magically disappeared NOT

You haven't answered the question.

How was my comment sexist?

Fang_3

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

Yes, let's all have sex and go to sleep happy, when we wake up tomorrow all the problems will have magically disappeared NOT

Then you're doing it wrong.

Redman30

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

Disgusting, sexist remark

No, you're wrong. It's the equivalent of bringing flowers and chocolates to apologise to a woman. Pampering is what you do to your other half when you've over stepped the mark and want to apologise.

And it made me smile, us men are such simple creatures

Littlemadam83

peachyprice wrote: »

This is so very very true, what incentive is there to tell the truth when you get accused of lying regardless. It would certainly make me think 'Oh sod you'.

I know, and this is my problem, and my !!!! up. I totally understand how it would make me feel if he did that to me

Littlemadam83

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

and this is the problem, he needs to earn the trust back and she needs to let him.

Couldnt have put that better myself, and although I am REALLY trying, there is sometimes something that reminds me of the way he was that day/on past occasions xxx

Bufger

Redman30 wrote: »

No, you're wrong. It's the equivalent of bringing flowers and chocolates to apologise to a woman. Pampering is what you do to your other half when you've over stepped the mark and want to apologise.

And it made me smile, us men are such simple creatures

Exactly!!!

If my missus wanted to make it up to me i'd be perfectly happy with a steak and a BJ. if she threw in an ice cold beer and a couple of hastle free hours on the Xbox without housework then i'd be one seriously happy man.

The comment was in no way sexist. It may have been a little too true for your liking.

I'm getting the impression that this person is a prude and just doesnt like any conversation or remarks to do with that dirty foul deed!