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  • sara86pink
    sara86pink Posts: 324 Forumite
    Big boss man is in today and seems to be in a good mood...

    He's currently wandering around the building but when he comes back to his office I'm going in!!!!
    :j *~* 2011 - TRY TO GET CREDIT CARD AS LOW AS POSS BUT STILL HAVE FUN *~* :j
  • Excellent idea; strike while the iron's hot. Don't let him escape!!! Good luck, although I know you don't need it :)
  • carolt
    carolt Posts: 8,531 Forumite
    Goood luck!


    If you don't ask, you don't get.

    And if they say no, you still have the option of taking your skills somewhere they are properly valued.
  • sara86pink
    sara86pink Posts: 324 Forumite
    Went in! Woop - one hurdle dealt with! hehe!

    Right, well I sat down and calmly said if I could ask if he knew anything about my bonus and he said straight away that yes he needed to work on it and he knew about it (which is a good sign) also turns out my manager said nothing so waste of time going to him!

    But, hes on client visits all next week and I'm away the week after so he said he will sit down with my manager and work something out the next couple of weeks and for me not to worry :)

    He also said he was going to sit down and discuss the option of getting me more involved with the consultant side of things so that it will be easier for me to progress and possibly get a promotion!

    Not sure if its just empty words yet but I am a little bit excited :)

    So, nothing new but at least *hopefully* the gears are now in motion!

    Thanks alot for everyone who has taken the time to read this, I know it has been a little silly in the grand scheme of things but its really nice to know that there are so many lovely people out there :)

    Love to you all xxx
    :j *~* 2011 - TRY TO GET CREDIT CARD AS LOW AS POSS BUT STILL HAVE FUN *~* :j
  • JenniferF
    JenniferF Posts: 141 Forumite
    Congratulations of being brave enough to go and chat to him!!

    And fingers crossed for the consultant side of things!

    Well done - make sure you enjoy your Bank Holiday weekend without the extra worry!

    Jen x
  • wireframe_2
    wireframe_2 Posts: 219 Forumite
    edited 3 June 2012 at 2:52AM
    Congratulations!
    Now you know two things:

    1) Your bonus is going to be discussed (HOPEFULLY!!) and you should have some news when you get back.

    2) Your manager doesn't give a flying fudgebar about your corporate wellbeing. So you're going to have to make things happen for yourself. :)

    Don't forget, after a few days back from holds, pop your head into the BB's room and say "Oh, how did the discussion go about my bonus?". Then you'll get an update, or he'll tell you that he's still meaning to have that conversation, in which ase you can come back on here ans as us what to do next! :)
  • Boo to the manager, cheers to the big boss, and congratulations to you! You deserve your success, and well done for having the courage to speak to him.
  • hermum
    hermum Posts: 7,123 Forumite
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    Hi. only just read this thread, it might be worth jotting down a few notes for the meeting. So that you will be in control & know what you want to ask. Don't write an essay, just a few bullet points for guidance.
    Don't forget about the bonus being backdated.
    Goodluck
  • wireframe_2
    wireframe_2 Posts: 219 Forumite
    hermum wrote: »
    Hi. only just read this thread, it might be worth jotting down a few notes for the meeting. So that you will be in control & know what you want to ask. Don't write an essay, just a few bullet points for guidance.
    Don't forget about the bonus being backdated.
    Goodluck
    so, uh, what happened?
  • Yes, how did it go?
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