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  • schoolrunmum
    schoolrunmum Posts: 2,689 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Don't ask us Ames-you know the answer you'll get....
    Debt-free...and staying that way...
  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    luc, said to dh it was mothers day i thought i was supposed to have a day off was told to "shove it up my !!!!!!" if he carries on like this i'll be following Sallys lead, i'm fed up of being treated like a scivvy
    Boiler pot £30.92/£1000
  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    i'm giving up the knitting machine as a bad job i think, i just cannot get it to do anything :) think its going back under the stairs
    Boiler pot £30.92/£1000
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    I hate to say it Claire but I think that might be the best path for you to take (the Sally path that is, not putting the machine away). It's easy for us to say it though, I was in that position last summer and it had taken me a long time to reach a decision and stick to it. Hopefully you'll realise you deserve better than to be treated like that and make changes, whether that's managing to get through to hubby that you deserve better and making him realise he has to change, or doing something more drastic.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    clairewop wrote: »
    luc, said to dh it was mothers day i thought i was supposed to have a day off was told to "shove it up my !!!!!!" if he carries on like this i'll be following Sallys lead, i'm fed up of being treated like a scivvy

    Your OH is a strange one. Sometimes he sounds thoughtful and caring and other times (more often truthfully) he sounds like he's really horrible to you. How do you cope with it? It would almost be easier if he was mean all the time - at least that way you would know what you are getting!
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    clairewop wrote: »
    i'm giving up the knitting machine as a bad job i think, i just cannot get it to do anything :) think its going back under the stairs

    Get your Nathan to knit stuff and sell that LOL
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • SuzySu
    SuzySu Posts: 3,478 Forumite
    Claire, what an effing vvanker. How nasty. Seriously, you are worth FAR more than that.
    YOUR = belonging to you (your coat); YOU'RE = you are (I hope you're ok)

    really....it's not hard to understand :T
  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    Lucifa73 wrote: »
    Get your Nathan to knit stuff and sell that LOL


    i will persevere a bit longer lol, having half hour away from it then i'll try again, playing games on facebook
    Boiler pot £30.92/£1000
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    clairewop wrote: »
    i will persevere a bit longer lol, having half hour away from it then i'll try again, playing games on facebook

    with hubby or knitting?:p
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    knitting hubby can take a long jump off a small cliff lol
    Boiler pot £30.92/£1000
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