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How much to give OH for rent bills etc?

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  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    No- not snap. I have never been divorced. I have been married to the same man I fell in love with at 21 for over 38 years.

    Congratulations on your forthcoming nuptuals. I'm glad you have found happiness. :)


    I thought I had the first time round, but he thought different! :rotfl:
  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    Even if you both remain happily married until the day one of you dies some separation of finances can be beneficial......

    .....In fact I think that making sure your OH is safe and protected whatever happens is what you do when you are in love - you don't risk them being left high and dry. That is why DH has his own account and why I have life insurance to look after him if I die.

    If I die, OH will get my pensions and 3 x my salary and my kids get my life insurance. All three will get peace and quiet :D

    If he dies, I get his house, his pensions, his life insurance AND 4 x his salary :T
  • clivejohnson
    clivejohnson Posts: 244 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    My OH and I have a simple set up, we have a joint account which we each pay half of the monthly bills into, £500 each. We earn roughly the same each month so that's not a problem. We keep our own accounts for anything we have left, what we do with that is up to us.
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