Opinions pls. So upset...

Intastella

littlemissteapot wrote: »

Well in my opinion I think I would have reacted a lot worse!! I am completley anti drugs (being a drugs worker I guess I would be!!)

You need to make it clear to him how upset & angry you are. If he is being agressive towards you it could be his guilt at doing something so utterly stupid or it could go deeper. Either way you don't deserve to feel like you are the one in the wrong. He has taken an illegal substance and broken the law. Whatever you decide I hope you get it sorted xx

What kind of drug worker are you? At what level of addiction are the majority of your clients? Curious because it's something i've been looking into doing myself.

Intastella

jamespir wrote: »

yes but by the sound s of things she's not talking she shouting and sparring for an argument (like most women do) she needs to leave her emotinal ties out of it

Might help if you leave sexist remarks out of it. Jus' sayin'

tomstickland

mumslave wrote: »

smoking = legal
Cocaine = Illegal

Thats the difference.

Does that make cocaine a higher risk too?

mumslave

tomstickland wrote: »

Does that make cocaine a higher risk too?

A higher risk of what?

euronorris

Intastella wrote: »

Might help if you leave sexist remarks out of it. Jus' sayin'

Yeah. I agree.

I'm female, and perfectly capable of discussing things with my partner in a calm manner.

And FYI, I know more than a few men who are far worse! I don't believe it's gender specific.

jamespir

Intastella wrote: »

Might help if you leave sexist remarks out of it. Jus' sayin'

i wasnt being sexist i was telling the truth

confuseddotcom1

jamespir wrote: »

yes but by the sound s of things she's not talking she shouting and sparring for an argument (like most women do) she needs to leave her emotinal ties out of it

I have tried to talk about it rationally since it initially happened. If anyone in our relationship ordinarily raises their voice or tries to have an argument, its him not me. Of course there are emotions in it - I love him.

poppyolivia

sorry I think I've been thanking wrong posts....I took it he snorted it when he was young, then drunk he told you??? That I wouldn't worry about..its in the past


If my OH did it now say I would boot his hole outta the door and set his clothes on fire!

confuseddotcom1

poppyolivia wrote: »

sorry I think I've been thanking wrong posts....I took it he snorted it when he was young, then drunk he told you??? That I wouldn't worry about..its in the past


If my OH did it now say I would boot his hole outta the door and set his clothes on fire!

Hi poppyolivia. No, he took it 2 weeks ago and told me about an hour after he took it as I was in the process of telling him that his friends had done it and I was glad he wasnt into that, and he admitted he had too. Had it been when he was young that would be none of my business. x

poppyolivia

I'm sorry but shout at him in front of his mates would have been the least I would have done!!...The thought of my OH doing that makes my blood boil!..seriously I'd go mental!