Opinions pls. So upset...

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Thanks again everyone for replies.

Mumslave, Im doing OK. We had a long chat earlier and he has admitted that he was quite angry with himself for doing it which is why he was avoiding the subject and apologised for it and for upsetting me. I told him he cant speak to me the way he does sometimes and he has taken on board what I have said. As I said in earlier posts, most of the time he is loving, thoughtful and really nice to me but sometimes there is a side to him that comes out which is totally out of character. I know he doesnt take drugs regularly as we pretty much spend every evening together and he isnt one to go out with his friends loads (the fact he appears to be so angry and embarassed with himself for doing it kind of reinforces that to me). Thanks so much for asking after me. Really appreciate it. xx

Am not going to post anymore as I want to try and move on from it and draw a line underneath it now. As I said above thanks everyone for their replies. I have taken all of it onboard - good and bad.

mumslave

Glad to hear things are being resolved. I know when I feel ashamed of myself I can be quite defensive too, perhaps he just needed some time to mull things over with himself. Hopefully there wont be a need for this to happen again for either of you. Best wishes x