Miscarriage support

Lauralou

(hugs) for you budget. When a certain date comes it is really hard to cope but of course its going to happen. I really don't know how i coped when it was my first due date as only a couple off days later it was a year since i finish the pill. I just tried my best to keep myself busy and made sure i talked to OH and he gave me big hugs. I think you do learn to cope as time goes on.

portsmouthali

Hi Budget, my due date is later this month.

I'm not sure I can face going through it again either, I'm back on the pill at the moment as after 2 m/c's with 3 months I thought my body needed a break. Hope you are OK XXXXX

FairyShazza

Sorry to hear your sad news Amara - take things slowly. If you feel you need more time off don't fret about taking it. It is an up and down rollercoaster recovering from a mc and it is important to do whatever you need to do to help yourself.

Portsmouthali - I am the same. Putting a brave face on things as I would've been due to go on my maternity leave tomorrow and due date would be in three weeks - am dreading it but at least it falls on a weekend so I won't have to come into work on that day.

Just checking in to see how everyone is doing. We are still trying - am working my way through my 1st month using my new CBFM so will see what happens. Surely it must be our time to get some good news soon.

Sending hugs to everyone.

Amara

I took a pregnancy test today morning, like I've been told to. Negative. That's good, hormones are settled. I'm going to the doctor tommorow. I don't know what to say to her, really.
Thanks for all your hugs : )

toniq

Amara just tell her what u have here, just because u have m/c it doesn't mean u won't go on to have a happy healthy pregnancy, alot of pregnancys end up in m/c, it hurts like hell and u never forget, u just move on and the pain becomes less.

I have a set of candles which sit on bedroom windowsill, every now and then i light them and have a lil prayer and shed some tears. Some days i totally collapse over it all, but i do move forward even now years later.

Take some time to heal, it really is a shock to the system, Thinking of u xxxxxx

jimbms

Just to say we had a miscarriage 7 yrs ago it took my wife 2yrs to get over it and we still to this day shed the odd tear for that time. My thoughts go out to all who are going through or have gone through this terrible ordeal.

QQuaver

2 years! That long... Haven't even reached one year mark yet:(
Can anyone really get over losing a baby?

Amara

I've been given a sick note for the next week. I brought it to my work, they said OK, althoght I got impressiontheyhaven't been happy about it.

toniq

Amara don't worry about work, u need time to get yourself together, concentrate on yourself xxx

Lauralou

QQuaver wrote: »

2 years! That long... Haven't even reached one year mark yet:(
Can anyone really get over losing a baby?

I don't think you ever do

Amara wrote: »

I've been given a sick note for the next week. I brought it to my work, they said OK, althoght I got impressiontheyhaven't been happy about it.

Glad you got a sick note. Please don't worry about work, you need time to get yourself better