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Miscarriage support

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  • sweaty_betty
    sweaty_betty Posts: 1,337 Forumite
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    So sorry gelly.


    AFM - I discovered I was pregnant again a couple of weeks ago, but went for a scan which showed that I was either only 5 weeks or the pregnancy wasn't progressing. 3-4 days later I started spotting and still am 2 days later. I'm in limbo as expecting to get a proper bleed at some point to confirm the miscarriage but still hanging on to the very slight hope that maybe not. I'm back at hospital on Thursday so will discuss the situation then, but I hate this not knowing.

    Just to follow up from this, had heavy bleeding today and scan showed inevitable miscarriage. Going back for a scan in 2 weeks to confirm its complete etc. All staff were lovely to me, so feel very fortunate, although obviously feel !!!! about the situation. Thanks for support etc
  • Lara44
    Lara44 Posts: 2,961 Forumite
    I'm really so sorry to hear that Betty :( Sending ((((huge hugs)))). Hope you're able to take some time off and just take things slowly.
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  • Gelly123
    Gelly123 Posts: 387 Forumite
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    Oh Sweaty, I'm so terribly sorry to hear your news.

    Truly thinking of you. We're all here for you but if you want to chat on PM, feel free to message me.

    Gelly
    x
    Married Sept '09, Me - 38, OH - 40, TTC since Nov '12
    4 previous MC's, 6 babies lost so far :A
    The proudest mummy - July 2016 xxx
  • msb5262
    msb5262 Posts: 1,619 Forumite
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    Betty, I'm so sorry. What a nightmare for you.
    Sending lots of love xx
  • Lots of love to you Betty Xx
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  • Air_Cooled_75
    Air_Cooled_75 Posts: 497 Forumite
    Oh ladies, so sad to see you all here again.

    I had a mc at about 5 weeks last month...feel ok really, it was over quickly so that was a relief.

    Big hugs to you all x
  • sweaty_betty
    sweaty_betty Posts: 1,337 Forumite
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    I'm sorry Air-Cooled and Gelly, hope your doing OK now (physically at least).

    I'm waiting for the worst to be over, I have a feeling I might be making a weekend of it :(.

    This is my 3rd loss in a row. Early miscarriage (5-6 weeks), loss of twins at 22 weeks, now this (7 weeks). Even though it's technically 3 miscarriages, it's unlikely that they'll investigate as the late term loss was a cervix problem, this one it looks like the yolk sac and baby didn't develop properly and the sac has separated from the womb and is heading out. So unlikely to be any underlying reasons that they can do anything about, probably put it down to my age (and there's nothing I can do about that!).

    I've had VIP treatment at the hospital after my previous loss, which is lovely, but didn't stop me losing this latest one. Very grateful but also very !!!!ed off.
  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
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    Big hugs Betty xxxx
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  • Toooldforthis
    Toooldforthis Posts: 315 Forumite
    Take care Betty x
  • Lara44
    Lara44 Posts: 2,961 Forumite
    Oh no Aircooled, I'm so sorry :( I hope you're doing okay.

    Betty, I'm not surprised you're really angry with how things have turned out. ((((Sending huge hugs))))
    :A :heartpuls June 2014 / £2014 in 2014 / £735.97 / 36.5%
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