Miscarriage support

Metranil_Vavin

Thanks MsB.

I'm just having a bad day today. Hoping my CBFM arrives in the next couple of days so I can start using that asap.

Shelley3774

Hello girls bit of an update for you. Started losing badly yesterday afternoon and had to go to hospital. Dr examined me and cleaned out some of the clots (horrible experience!!!!) she was very confident that this would stop the bleeding but worse was to come A few hours later I started losing lots of large clots and was put on a drug that stems the bleeding. Unfortunately this didn't work and I was then taken down for a d&c in the early hrs of this morning.
I am now home and trying to have some rest and I'm so thankful I am now over the worst. The whole experience has been much worse than I could ever have imagined and my heart goes out to all those going through the same xx

gratefulforhelp_2

MV you are young, woman!!

Shelley hugs honey, that is whats happening to me right now, was stuck in the loo for an hour, scared to move (sorry, TMI)
At what point did you decide to go to hosp?

Metranil_Vavin

Poor Shelley so sorry you're having to go through all this, but good that you've had the ERPC now and can start to heal.

Look after yourself honey and try and get lots and lots of rest.

GFH - bless you..I feel like 37 is ancient! Dont worry about TMI..you can say whatever you like here. When do you go back to the hospital? Again look after yourself and try and get lots of sleep (easier said than done I know)

My period has arrived with a vengance..yeurk painful and heavy.

I'm starting on my Zita West vitamins today..they look like horse tablets, but apparently are the best.

I'll give anythign a go

gratefulforhelp_2

Hi, MV the miscarriage is happening naturally and at home. I'm resisting going in, unless I lose too much blood.

I Don't feel quite so confident about getting back on the horse now....

portsmouthali

Lots of hugs to GFH & Shelley, the heavy bleeding/clots stage is very distressing. I remember it too well hope you're both OK xxx

MV, I feel the same as you - loads of baby/pregnancy chatter at work at the moment, I sometimes feel like saying "HELLO?! Remember what happened to me recently?" Of course I know that's completely unreasonable and probably certifiable . I'm off this week and very glad about it! Sorry you're struggling so much, hope you feel better soon. I also have no-one in RL to talk to about it (not even OH these days) so I'm happy to listen when you or anyone else need to vent xx

FairyShazza

GFH / Shelley sending hugs your way. I hope that the worst is over quickly for you both.

gratefulforhelp_2

Think the worst is over, but hats off to anyone who has been through it and kept their marbles!
Thought I was going to have to go in for a blood transfusion, which I really don't want.

Hugs, MV. Is a new job a possibility?

QQuaver

Shelley3774 wrote: »

The whole experience has been much worse than I could ever have imagined and my heart goes out to all those going through the same xx

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

Think the worst is over, but hats off to anyone who has been through it and kept their marbles!
Thought I was going to have to go in for a blood transfusion, which I really don't want.

Hat's off to both of you, I didn't realise I had it easy with erpc...:o

Metranil_Vavin

Morning ladies.

Back to work for me today..terrific.

GFH - I dont think I could be ar5ed to look for a new job. I get paid ok here and I know it back to front. I am so disinterested in working right now it would be like jumping out of the fireplace etc...

Glad you are nearly at the end of your ordeal hon x

My boss just called me into his office for a chat about work stuff, and ended up asking me how I was doing, and that he was concious of people having baby chats around my dest often (he's the one who has just had the baby).

It set me off again blubbing...but it was so nice that someone here had actually bothered to ask me how I am..no one else dares/cares enough to.

We had a good chat. It turns out he and his fiancee tried for 3 years before she got preg :eek:

Thanks Ali - I know I can be horrible self-indulgent at times about all this, and I am going to try and keep it off the TTC board as I'm sure it just irritates people, but I have to be able to 'talk' about this stuff somewhere as i felt like I was losing control yesterday and was scaring myself with the darkness I was feeling

Love to all x