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  • I know what you mean TOFT. I didn't get any answers from the investigations they did on me, or the twins either. I almost wanted there to be a problem so that there was something they could 'fix', or at least so I'd know why. It's the 'bad luck' bit that is so hard to swallow.

    Thank you Gelly, hope you are doing ok too Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • Yep if we could take a magic pill and it would all be better eh xx
  • Lara44
    Lara44 Posts: 2,961 Forumite
    I'm so sorry to hear that Toooldforthis, you must be feeling absolutely wrung out. ((((((I'm sending the hugest of virtual hugs)))))) but wish they could be real ones.

    (((((Massive hugs too, Lucky for your twins' due date))))). I am sure you are thinking about them a lot.

    Mine is next weekend and I find myself thinking so much about what would have been. My friend is due the following week and I slept over in her nursery the day before yesterday. It was really strange. I am blessed to be pg again but sad to have lost that little life no matter how tiny.
    :A :heartpuls June 2014 / £2014 in 2014 / £735.97 / 36.5%
  • samtoby
    samtoby Posts: 2,438 Forumite
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    I'm so sorry to hear that TOFT, nothing I can say will make it any better but know we are here for you.

    Today is the due date of my twins I lost in my 3rd miscarriage. It doesn't get any easier does it??!! Xx

    So sorry. Just passed mine too. I held my friends baby who was born a couple of weeks ago and it was like holding what could have been.

    I am sorry to hear your investigations didn't show anything to be able to have a reason. :(
    3 Children - 2004 :heart2: 2014 :heart2: 2017 :heart2:
    Happily Married since 2016
  • Thank you Lara and Samtoby. I'm so pleased you are both in more fortunate positions now Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • Miss-L
    Miss-L Posts: 15 Forumite
    I haven't posted for a while as I've been feeling very sad. :(
    At first my two pregnancies and two miscarriages felt like a dream and now I'm starting to realise they did really happen and I'm missing my babies that could have been.

    My first baby (lost in August 2013 at 11+4 ) would have been due this week.

    I have been to my consultant follow my apt after my second miscarriage (in Jan 2014 at 19+6) and they said my little girl was genetically and developmentally normal. The consultant felt the miscarriage was due to the placenta not embedding properly or 'placentation' as she called it. I did bleeding from have a sub chorionic haematoma and PPROM. Has anyone else experience this or been told they suffered 'placentation'?
  • rosie_78
    rosie_78 Posts: 261 Forumite
    id be 36 wks pg today :(
  • Lara44
    Lara44 Posts: 2,961 Forumite
    So sorry to hear about your losses, Miss-L. They both sound very traumatic. I hope that the consultant is able to give you some treatment options xx
    :A :heartpuls June 2014 / £2014 in 2014 / £735.97 / 36.5%
  • ttc39
    ttc39 Posts: 691 Forumite
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    rosie_78 wrote: »
    id be 36 wks pg today :(

    Hugs Rosie, I know how you feel - 1-4-14 was my due date :-(. X
    Joined SW on 1.5.14 - Weight 11 stone 11 :eek:
    :A- 8/13 :A - 4/14
  • Mrs_T_M
    Mrs_T_M Posts: 2,039 Forumite
    I'd be 25 weeks today. Had a good cry earlier as well.
    Baby Dale
    26th January 2014 - Forever in our hearts
    :A
    Eli Gabriel 19th February 2015
    :j
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