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Miscarriage support

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  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I'm so so sorry. Did you get any investigations last time as to if there is anything they could have been doing to help this time or was it inconclusive?

    Make sure you take some time off work. I wish there was something I could do to help x
  • Oh TOFT, I'm so sorry to see you over here after your fourth mc. I can't imagine how you are feeling after so many but really wanted to let you know we're thinking of you and hope you are getting the support you now need.

    Are they investigating why it's happened four times for you?

    Massive hugs
    Gelly
    x
    Married Sept '09, Me - 38, OH - 40, TTC since Nov '12
    4 previous MC's, 6 babies lost so far :A
    The proudest mummy - July 2016 xxx
  • So sorry to hear this xxx
    Our first baby due 25th May 2014 :T

    Maternity leave fund: £3000/£6000 :T
  • Tests after 3rd showed nothing wrong ...so they are going to trst againbut its probably my age as I'm over 40 ! Positively ancient eh xx

    Thank you for your wishes xx
  • Morn. .. back again I'm afraid miscarriage number 4 ... the physical pain I can cope with the mental pain is another matter x

    So so sorry. Had been really pleased to see you posting on the other board (when I was lurking) :(

    Really hope there's something they can do to get to the bottom of why this keeps happening. In the meantime, be kind to yourself.
  • Thanks everyone xx

    And SB hope so but not holding my breath I'm afraid :'(:'(
  • Thanks everyone xx

    And SB hope so but not holding my breath I'm afraid :'(:'(

    I wish I could wave a magic wand for you :(

    The only thing I can think of is a friend of mine in her early 40s who had 3 first trimester miscarriages in succession, with no obvious cause apart from her age... She went for fertility reflexology prior to her most recent pregnancy and is currently at 36 weeks. I had alternative treatment (reflexology and acupuncture) after my early miscarriage and I do believe that helped (who knows how?) me become pregnant again (although it's not worked this time, yet).

    Sorry if you've tried this/it's not very helpful.
  • I'm so sorry to hear that TOFT, nothing I can say will make it any better but know we are here for you.

    Today is the due date of my twins I lost in my 3rd miscarriage. It doesn't get any easier does it??!! Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • Gelly123
    Gelly123 Posts: 387 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker

    Today is the due date of my twins I lost in my 3rd miscarriage. It doesn't get any easier does it??!! Xx

    PLMBL - Thinking of you today - massive hugs (((HUGS)))

    Gelly
    x
    Married Sept '09, Me - 38, OH - 40, TTC since Nov '12
    4 previous MC's, 6 babies lost so far :A
    The proudest mummy - July 2016 xxx
  • Nope it doesn't it hurts everyday :-( ... and to not have a reason why somehow makes it worse .... hugs to you too xx
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