Miscarriage support

Metranil_Vavin

Congratulations LL!!:T

Really chuffed for you

Here's to a happy and healthy pregnancy! x

ladylegs

Leopardlady, I'm really pleased for you too. Excellent news x

Leopardlady

Thank you guys, i am going for 3rd time lucky

mamajojo

Just wanted to send hugs to you all. It breaks my heart to read of your losses but this thread will give so much support. I know a similar thread on a different site really was my life line to survive my mc. No one else understands no matter how much they want to help and you can say what you need to without worrying about the other person iykwim. I had a mmc with our third child at 8 w 5d, had the tiniest bit of spotting at what I thought was 12 weeks. We now have a very bonkers 2 1/2 year old who arrived very soon after the mc.
I still have a cry when I think of our baby angel, but only sometimes. It does get easier. Be kind to yourselves and take your time to recover. xxxx

Metranil_Vavin

I'm still stuck in the 'it's never going to happen for us' rut..I feel quite helpless and depressed some days.

It's affected me in more ways than I could ever imagine, one of the scariest being what I can only descibe now as a 'social phobia'.

I really struggle with large groups of people, and whereas I've always been a party girl and very sociable, at the moment I just cant be bothered and find myself 'zoneing out' when people are talking to me..its very odd.

OH thinks I should see the dr, but I cant even raise the energy to do that!

tinkwings

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

I'm still stuck in the 'it's never going to happen for us' rut..I feel quite helpless and depressed some days.

It's affected me in more ways than I could ever imagine, one of the scariest being what I can only descibe now as a 'social phobia'.

I really struggle with large groups of people, and whereas I've always been a party girl and very sociable, at the moment I just cant be bothered and find myself 'zoneing out' when people are talking to me..its very odd.

OH thinks I should see the dr, but I cant even raise the energy to do that!

You are NOT alone MV I am just the same I don't even like to answer the phone at home. Don't want people around me. All I want is to be PG. :mad:

Please don't EVER thing that you are alone in this. :A

snipzychick

Nope you're definately not alone ladies. I've ignored my phone ringing twice today as I didn't recognise the number, and then I heard a knock at the door, but didn't answer!! I just really couldn't be bothered. It turned out to be a florist delivering me some flowers, I thought it might have been a visitor and I just didn't feel like seeing anyone!

We all deal with it in our different ways, I definately am not myself just yet, and I feel emotionally and physically drained atm.

Metranil_Vavin

It's good to know I'm not alone!

People really dont understand unless they've been through it. My OH is a lovely man, but even he gets narked at me sometimes and more or less tells me to 'pull myself together'.

You're right Tinks..the only thing that will honestly help is to get pregnant again, and that seems so out of reach.

tinkwings

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

It's good to know I'm not alone!

People really dont understand unless they've been through it. My OH is a lovely man, but even he gets narked at me sometimes and more or less tells me to 'pull myself together'.

You're right Tinks..the only thing that will honestly help is to get pregnant again, and that seems so out of reach.

So very true honey we are good people and just want a bump & baby to hold in our arms for the rest of our lives. Not too much to ask for.

I was talking with my counsellor who said at least i know what it feels like to have a good outcome for a bfp it must be worse to only know mc from a bfp. At the end of the day we all just want a happy outcome.

It does seem very far out of reach. DH doesn't understand how it feels for AF to arrive and feel so disappointed.

portsmouthali

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

People really dont understand unless they've been through it. My OH is a lovely man, but even he gets narked at me sometimes and more or less tells me to 'pull myself together'.
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I'm getting that as well. I know he just wants me to feel better but it's like a slap in the face coming from him of all people.

I'm all over the place at the moment and I hate feeling so low when I've got so much to be grateful for. I'm scared that if I never have another successful pregnancy then I'll never get over it. I know that sounds dramatic, and I feel like an attention seeking drama queen just typing it! I'm not, honestly .