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  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    So sorry to hear your news toft, so horrible that you've suffered so much already and now this :( x x
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  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    Well I hope at least this time you won't be so ill even though I know how horrible it is mentally.

    God it's so s@hit how this happens. X
  • Toooldforthis
    Toooldforthis Posts: 315 Forumite
    Thanks everyone xx

    I just don't know what to do with myself at the mo :-( x
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    Big hugs Toft.
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  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
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    Oh Toft! I'm so sorry. You must be devastated. Life can be so cruel.

    Remember we also have a multiple miscarriages thread you might find useful when you are ready to think about next steps.

    Big hugs x x
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  • sophiasmum
    sophiasmum Posts: 761 Forumite
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    TOFT - sorry to read your sad message. Hope today goes as well as it can - nobody should have to go through this xx
  • Toooldforthis
    Toooldforthis Posts: 315 Forumite
    Back from hospital ... got til wait til next week 7th for the operation :-( x
  • sweaty_betty
    sweaty_betty Posts: 1,337 Forumite
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    Back from hospital ... got til wait til next week 7th for the operation :-( x

    Sorry it's being prolonged, not what you need. Really hope you can take some time out over the next few days. Sending you a big hug.
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    Back from hospital ... got til wait til next week 7th for the operation :-( x

    I found out on a Monday and had the op on a Friday. Although the waiting was bad, at the same time it gave me time to 'say goodbye.' And spend 4 days crying :( Also I wasn't sure at the time if I wanted to do it or not so I spent most of the time on here or talking to my friends and DH deliberating if to do it or not.

    So I can see once you've made the decision, waiting would be awful because you just want it over with.

    It might not be possible but I know at my hospital people did make cancellations because they changed their mind about whether to do it or not, and maybe they could put you on some kind of waiting list for tomorrow just incase? Although I guess because of the fasting that might not be possible. Damn bank holiday x
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    So sorry to hear TOFT
    xx
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