Miscarriage support

TeamLowe

tea_lover wrote: »

Thanks all. I'm sure I'm not usually this pathetic, I don't seem to be able to string a sentence together at the moment.

Am back at work again, will see how it goes.

I need to let them know what I'm doing about the permanent job offer but I just can't think straight about anything.

Of course you're not usually this pathetic, 'usually' you haven't just suffered a huge loss
Be kind to yourself, don't try to be 'strong', you're allowed to be brought completely and utterly low by this experience x

Toooldforthis

Hi .... I'm back again :-( .... had scan at 7 & 9 weeks all ok went today for 12 weeks scan no jeartbeat detected ..... am beyond devastated dunno what to do :-( .

msb5262

Toooldforthis - I'm so sorry. I can't begin to imagine what you are feeling now, please accept my sincere condolences and a big (((hug))).
I see from the other thread that you've got to go back tomorrow. Can you take anyone with you?
Keep us posted and look after yourself.

MsB x

tea_lover

Oh TOFT, I'm so sorry. There's nothing I can say, but I'm thinking of you and sending much love xx.

Toooldforthis

Thank you x

My OH will come with me .... I've told them after the last two times I dont want to go through it naturally .... I'm in shock I guess it looked so perfect on the screen xx

claire16c

Oh I am so so sorry TOFT. Do you mean youre going to have an erpc? If you are worried about that I wrote a long account on here if you want to read it, I was really really scared but it was honestly ok.

I am so upset that this can happen when youve already been through it twice, plus having the reassurance scans. Its just so unfair and sad. Huge huge hugs xx

Toooldforthis

claire16c wrote: »

Oh I am so so sorry TOFT. Do you mean youre going to have an erpc? If you are worried about that I wrote a long account on here if you want to read it, I was really really scared but it was honestly ok.

I am so upset that this can happen when youve already been through it twice, plus having the reassurance scans. Its just so unfair and sad. Huge huge hugs xx

I have already had two but last two times it was under emergency situations as the miscarriage had happened natural and I had haemorrhaged and was really poorly.

I just can't believe it's gone wrong again especially as we saw the heartbeat at 7 and 9 weeks x

please-let-me-be-lucky

I'm so sorry to read your news again TOFT. So unfair. I think you have made the right decision re the ERPC though. Big hugs and hope it all goes as well as it can tomorrow Xx

Metranil_Vavin

Really sorry TOFT.

Now that you have had 3 mc's they will finally start to take it seriously if you decide you want to try again..why you have to go through 3 losses first however I don't know.

x

sweaty_betty

Really sorry tooold. Hope tomorrow goes as well as possible. Will be thinking of you.