Miscarriage support

please-let-me-be-lucky

My hubby is at home too so I've been well looked after Xx

fran-o

Hello Please let be me lucky and Fraz -sorry to hear you are having a tough time and sorry for your losses. The ladies on this board are supportive and its a good space to let off steam too.
Lemonmelon, so sorry to hear you are having a difficult time, I don't have any advice - other than to be kind to yourself - but sending hugs and hope the referral brings positive support x

budget_budd

I feel like giving up

Just after my miscarriage I had a (not close) friend ask me outright (in the middle of Tesco) "have you just had another miscarriage?" I was very upset and shocked that someone thought this was an ok question to ask someone (I hadn't told her I was pregnant)

I discovered yesterday (from someone else - facebook confirms) that she is pregnant and would have been at the time she asked me that horrible question

HOW F***ING RUDE!

Hope everyone else is having a better time, take care of yourselves ladies xxx I am still not back at work, still not able to cope with a lot, this time of year is hard.....

Metranil_Vavin

Budget that is an appallingly insensitive thing to say!

Doesn't sound like that great a friend to me.

x

fran-o

Budget Budd thats terrible - so sorry your friend has been so stupidly tactless. Feel better soon x

budget_budd

Thank you Metranil Vavin, I thought at the time it was one of the worst things anyone could ask me.

Trouble is I see her everyday on the school run and we work at the same place (although I am not there at the mo) Im never going to get away from it. arrragghhhhhh

Thank you fran-o xx I guess you can't control how tactless other people are...

Im very angry again now, been a very emotional few weeks.

fran-o

so: the most famous woman in the world has announced her pregnancy...

budget_budd

Its going to be a long 9 months....

fran-o

the office went mad with speculation of due dates etc while I tried my best not to look sulky. I probably would have had my own announcement this week.
I wish them every happiness but hope the press don't keep the craziness going all the way through, for their sake and mine...

Metranil_Vavin

Let's just hope nothing goes wrong for her.

She's not even 12 weeks and the whole world knows.

She faces the same challenges we all have here, only it is under the spotlight <shudder>