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  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    Oh darling maire, again I'm so sorry, it's so unfair that this has come again to you, especially after waiting so long for your bfp :( my thoughts are with you and your partner tonight, I hope you don't suffer much physically with it x x

    Skintchick I hope you're scan tomorrow shows all is ok. Getting some rest seems the best idea, I hope you can get some sleep later x x
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  • msb5262
    msb5262 Posts: 1,619 Forumite
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    Hello all,

    It's always worrying when this thread pops up again.

    skintchick - I'll be thinking of you a lot. Don't come to any conclusions about what may or may not be happening....try just to get through the next few days and then you will at least have some definite information.

    maire1 - so so sorry. You poor soul. Please accept my sympathy and also some information...you said that you know nothing is done after two mcs but a friend of mine begged her GP for a referral after her second mc and she got it. She was sent to an excellent obstetrician/gynaecologist and had a healthy baby on pregnancy #3. I hope this is encouraging for you and I will be keeping you in my thoughts

    MsB x
  • Metranil_Vavin
    Metranil_Vavin Posts: 5,025 Forumite
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    Maire I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Nothing anyone can say will stop it hurting and feeling the most unfair thing in the world..because that's what it is.

    This thread is amazing for support, everyone knows how utterly 5hitty it feels.

    Sending love x
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  • mishkanorman
    mishkanorman Posts: 4,155 Forumite
    My sympathies to the newbies, yet again I hate seeing this thread pop back up to the top :(


    Skintchick,

    How are you now, your light is on but not sure if you still reading.

    Any more bleeding ? I cant believe you have this stress again, thinking of you but wont be about tomorrow - take care of yourself tonight x x x
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  • Metranil_Vavin
    Metranil_Vavin Posts: 5,025 Forumite
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    skintchick, so sorry I only just saw your post.

    How are things now? Brown blood is meant to be less of a worry than bright red, so perhaps the fact that the spotting is brownish is a better sign?

    I really hope you get good news at your scan tomorrow.
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    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • abis21
    abis21 Posts: 1,120 Forumite
    Big hugs Marie - so sad for you. Take care of yourself and hugs for your OH too. :A

    Skintchick - Try to keep the PMA huni, theres lots of reasons for spotting in early pregnancy - it doesn't necessarily mean the worst - altho I know how hard it must be not to think that way especially after 4 losses :( It will be tricky to pick up a hearbeat on a doppler before 12 weeks so try not to use it as it will only add to the anxiety and worry. Fingers crossed for good news tomorrow xxx
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  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
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    It's getting red again and I have had some very small clots. Also the cramping is getting worse. I'm trying to be positive but it is very hard. Thanks for all all your thoughts I do appreciate it.
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  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    You're not alone tonight Skintchick. We are all thinking of you and praying that all will be well. Try to get some sleep before the scan tomorrow, and I hope you will be back with good news.
  • Kitten_Pie
    Kitten_Pie Posts: 1,961 Forumite
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    Just seen this is, skintchick I am keeping everything crossed for you and hoping tomorrow comes back with good news.

    Marie I am so sorry you have had to go through this again, thinking of you.
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  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    Skintchick, I've only just seen your post. Like everyone else I truely hoped you would have had an easier time of it this time. I'm keeping my fingers crossed you get positive news today.

    Marie, I'm so sorry you're going through this again and I understand your need for answers. It still plays on my mind that I don't know why we lost our first two babies. The only thing I can say to you is it isn't your fault. Be kind to yourself.

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