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  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Kitten Pie - My thoughts are with you today xoxo
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Kitten pie, thinking of you, your family and your angels today.
  • Taadaa
    Taadaa Posts: 2,113 Forumite
    I'm so sorry for your unimaginable loss. I can understand the fear of jinxing a little. I let myself look at some things today but l haven't bought anything yet, and l only had a scare. At least you have something positive to focus on now you are pregnant again. Just take each day as it comes.
    I have had many Light Bulb Moments. The trouble is someone keeps turning the bulb off :o

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  • Thanks for posting Kittenpie.

    I also don't know what to say, words seem meaningless sometimes but I hope it helps a little to know we are all thinking of you xx
  • msb5262
    msb5262 Posts: 1,619 Forumite
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    Hello all,
    Just checking in to see how everyone is doing.
    Kitten Pie, so many people here are holding you in their thoughts and I hope knowing that has helped you a tiny bit to get through the day. Thank you for sharing your feelings here, and I hope that you are on your way to bed now and will sleep as well as you could wish.
    Love to you and to everyone who is feeling low, sad, broken, lonely
    MsB xxx
  • Kitten_Pie
    Kitten_Pie Posts: 1,961 Forumite
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    Thank you everyone for your support yesterday, it meant a lot and definitely helped.

    Feeling better today so here is hoping the pma stays a while. Hope everyone is ok and tinkwings my thoughts are with you today.

    Holly
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  • colli
    colli Posts: 669 Forumite
    big squishy hug for you today Tinks. Hope you get through it ok xx
  • Well, the baby came in yesterday and I had a couple of sad thoughts but I didn't cry. I even held her for a few minutes :T Her mum asked how I was doing, and told me about her friend who had 2 miscarriages, 1 ectopic followed by a failed round of IVF, who is now 7 months pregnant (she fell naturally) I love stories like that :) she gave me a hug too, which I think was her way of letting me know she knew it was going to be hard for me. I felt quite pleased with myself to be honest, as I was dreading it so much.

    Hope everyone else is having a peaceful weekend, hugs to anyone who needs one xxxxx
  • Kitten_Pie
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    I am glad that it wasn't too painful for your portsmouthali.

    Hope the weekend is as gentle.
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    :ANathan Henry & Lincoln Marcus born 19th October 2011 :A
    :D Naomi Lily born 28th August 2012 :D Lachlan Georg born 4th October 2013 :D
    :D Rowena Hazel born 5th October 2015 :D
  • Kitten_Pie
    Kitten_Pie Posts: 1,961 Forumite
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    Hi Debt Free Dreamer,

    I don't really have any answers but I would expect the blood tests to still be processed however how many answers they can give I expect will be limited. It is more to test blood type, HIV etc. You can try ringing up to see if they will give you the results should anything show up.

    Unfortunately most doctors won't do any further testing unless you have had three or more miscarriages. The likely hood of it happening again is extremely low.

    Hopefully someone with more knowledge will be able to add more accurate information.

    The important thing is for you and your OH to grieve together and to take time for yourselves. I am sorry that you have had to go through this.
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    :ANathan Henry & Lincoln Marcus born 19th October 2011 :A
    :D Naomi Lily born 28th August 2012 :D Lachlan Georg born 4th October 2013 :D
    :D Rowena Hazel born 5th October 2015 :D
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