Miscarriage support

cleofish

kitten pie, ive only just seen your story im so so sorry for what you have been through and i have to say that your a very brave lady indeed. Your oh was brilliant with those words i know i would be very proud if my oh was as half as good as yours as putting that into words. Wishing you all the best and success in whatever you go onto.

p.s im another one liking the pink hair

flowertotmum

Hello..my heart aches for all of you..i am 11 wks pregnant and have been bleeding for 6 days now..been to the doctors and had to push for an emergency appointment..which i now have tomorrow at 8.15..i have no pain only mild cramps..
I am soo terrified of whats going to happen...i had a miscarriage 22yrs ago and nearly died from blood loss..i am trying to keep positive and be brave when all i really want to do is curl up in a ball and cry...
Would you all be so kind and think of me tomorrow..whatever happens i will let you all know
flowertotmum
xx

Kitten_Pie

BikerChick wrote: »

Just popping in and some real heart jerking messages here that puts my situation into more perspective, in my mind.

Nearly a week now of 'slow' bleeding really not sure if this is the end of the process or if its not really started.
I see EPU on Mon pm for scan again, if not all clear I will go with the medication and hope that finalises it. I really want that now as this baby was clearly dead around mid Nov.
I'll pop in Mon afternoon to catch up again.

Big ((Hugs)) bikerchick, I hope that things get better for you.

please don't feel that your loss is only very minor compared to those of others; it's still a loss and it is bound to affect you deeply.

I second that, every loss is a loss which effects you deeply. Everyone's experience is different and no one can say that one is worse than the other.

flowertotmum wrote: »

Hello..my heart aches for all of you..i am 11 wks pregnant and have been bleeding for 6 days now..been to the doctors and had to push for an emergency appointment..which i now have tomorrow at 8.15..i have no pain only mild cramps..
I am soo terrified of whats going to happen...i had a miscarriage 22yrs ago and nearly died from blood loss..i am trying to keep positive and be brave when all i really want to do is curl up in a ball and cry...
Would you all be so kind and think of me tomorrow..whatever happens i will let you all know
flowertotmum
xx

I will be thinking of you flowertotmum and hope things go as smoothly as they can for you.

Kitten_Pie

Thank you all for your kind words, feeling a bit better this week.

flowertotmum

Thank you kittenpie..unfortunately things have not gone the right way and i have lost my baby..
ftm

Nicki

I am very very sorry flowertotmum. That is devastating news. What happens next? Do you have time to grieve and come to terms with what has happened or are there medical decisions to be taken in the next few days. We are all here for support and advice. Over the course of the whole thread, sadly, between us we have experienced most of all the possible permutations and are happy to share our experiences.

flowertotmum

Hi nicki..thank you for your words..i have already come to terms with whats happened..i knew deep down that something was very wrong..i have had 6 babies already and a miscarriage..my hubby and i have cried and talked all week..i had to make a choice this morning of how to remove remains..feel awful and so scared..my hubby is my rock and is just as devastated as me..
I am a lot older and hopefully much wiser now than i was before..so i am hoping we can get through this together and come out stronger.
But i will take all advice and support i can get..
thanks
ftm

Metranil_Vavin

Sorry for your loss flowertomum x

msb5262

Very sorry to hear your news flowertotmum - what a sad thing to happen. Look after yourself and pop in here whenever you need a chat.
Best wishes
MsB

cleofish

so sorry to hear that flowertomum, sending you my thoughts. i too had a mc at 11 weeks in november, so if you need any advice let me know.
Take care of yourself.