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colli

emsbet wrote: »

How are you doing today colli? I was thinking of you yesterday.

xx

aw bless you . think I'm a teeny bit hungover this morning only had a couple of glasses:o. Doing ok, planning a holiday asap so have something to look forward to. not sure what yet but it will be something very child unfriendly that we'd never be able to do if we had kids. OH wants to do a clubbing weekend in Amsterdam but I think I may be too old for that :eek: xx

emsbet

colli wrote: »

aw bless you . think I'm a teeny bit hungover this morning only had a couple of glasses:o. Doing ok, planning a holiday asap so have something to look forward to. not sure what yet but it will be something very child unfriendly that we'd never be able to do if we had kids. OH wants to do a clubbing weekend in Amsterdam but I think I may be too old for that :eek: xx

A holiday sounds like a good idea I think I spent about 2 months after my last mc being hungover

xx

Metranil_Vavin

kitten - I hadn't read your story previously, but I just have and it's brought tears to my eyes.

I am so, so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boys. Nothing will ever replace them, but you have your treasured memories which will last a lifetime.

I think the way your OH wrote about them was truly beautiful too.
xx

whowants2brich

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

kitten - I hadn't read your story previously, but I just have and it's brought tears to my eyes.

I am so, so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boys. Nothing will ever replace them, but you have your treasured memories which will last a lifetime.

I think the way your OH wrote about them was truly beautiful too.
xx

I second that, word for word. Including the tears and treasured memories so you will never forget your boys. Stay strong and the world will find a way to reward you in a way and at a time you least expect it. x

SusanC_2

Kitten_Pie, I'm so sorry for your loss- I can't begin to imagine how devastating it must be to lose two babies at once. Please don't feel you shouldn't bring things down - that's what this thread is here for and we all have bad days when we could do with support.

maire1

Kitten your oh has a way with words. What a horrible time you've been through. My thoughts are with you and I'm so sorry for your loss.

I think sometimes we put ourselves under too much pressure to 'get over it'. At first, everyone is full of sympathy etc but in a way, it gets more difficult as that wears off and life goes on around you when you feel like it will never be the same.

I'm trying to be kinder to myself. I lost my baby and I am sad. It's ok to feel that way.

msb5262

Just reading the last few posts, very sad. Kittenpie don't apologise, you have got to feel how you feel until you don't feel that way any more. maire1's last line is perfect - please everyone, be kind to yourselves and don't put a time limit on how long you're allowed to feel sad. The babies you lost will always be with you and in time it will be easier.

Love to all
MsB x

QQuaver

I've just read about your loss colli, (((hugs))).
And (((hugs))) to you too Kitten_pie:grouphug:

BikerChick

Just popping in and some real heart jerking messages here that puts my situation into more perspective, in my mind.

Nearly a week now of 'slow' bleeding really not sure if this is the end of the process or if its not really started.
I see EPU on Mon pm for scan again, if not all clear I will go with the medication and hope that finalises it. I really want that now as this baby was clearly dead around mid Nov.
I'll pop in Mon afternoon to catch up again.

msb5262

Hi BikerChick,

Sorry you're still in limbo with the bleeding etc - it's a horrible time. I hope that posting here shows you that you are far from alone but please don't feel that your loss is only very minor compared to those of others; it's still a loss and it is bound to affect you deeply.
Hope your appointment on Monday goes ok, let us know.

Best wishes

MsB x