Miscarriage support

MoneySavingMamma

OMG PP, just read about ur medical problems! You poor thing! Is your OH still being a grumpy sh!te? Do you give him the fish water treatment?

I have to say though, with all that going on, you must enjoy the BD'n! I can't be ars3d most the time, but if I had an excuse like yours I'd be down to 2x a year (I might want a little bit more, but would calm myself down & hold out!)

(Sorry for being inappropriate! But were all friends here!)

pigpen

Nah.. there is much worse going on in the world.. I'll moan for a bit..but life goes on and I do use you poor MSE'ers as a sounding board.. so if it sounds like I moan 100% of the time it is because I have to live with the people here so don't want to pi$$ them off with too much moaning.. lol.

I could take it or leave and preferred to leave it with KH but OH is SO good at what he does I can't say no!!! i need a cold shower just thinking about it!

He is still a grumpy turd on occasion but he has to live with me so I don't think I can hold it against him most of the time (and of course there are much rounder things I want to hold against him.. *nudge nudge wink wink*) he is just terrified and he has gone from a single guy living on his own in his peace and quiet to living my chaos with 2 babies of his own in just over 2 years.. it is scary!!!!

MoneySavingMamma

pigpen wrote: »

Nah.. there is much worse going on in the world.. I'll moan for a bit..but life goes on and I do use you poor MSE'ers as a sounding board.. so if it sounds like I moan 100% of the time it is because I have to live with the people here so don't want to pi$$ them off with too much moaning.. lol.

I could take it or leave and preferred to leave it with KH but OH is SO good at what he does I can't say no!!! i need a cold shower just thinking about it!

He is still a grumpy turd on occasion but he has to live with me so I don't think I can hold it against him most of the time (and of course there are much rounder things I want to hold against him.. *nudge nudge wink wink*) he is just terrified and he has gone from a single guy living on his own in his peace and quiet to living my chaos with 2 babies of his own in just over 2 years.. it is scary!!!!

Glad you didn't disown me for that one!

I rarely get 'randy mare' ness, used to, same partner, think I'm just older & tireder! Got one major urge during last pg actually, that was quite fun!

I bet it's scary for him having a big change, but he chose to join u&the other 8, 2 more won't make that much of a difference?:rotfl:

I just need a distraction from this waiting game! He's staying at work late to avoid me so I'm on my own till 9, then I'm off to bed anyway!

MoneySavingMamma

Me again! Sorry! Having a bad night!

Going over my dates, there is no way I could have been <4weeks at last scan (like they told me) as going back to when I got BFP, using ovulation calculator that was in my 'fertile window' the least I can be now (by their measurements I should be <5weeks) is 6+3.

So either they measured wrong (is that likely?) or it's not growing at the right rate. (can they actually see HB at <4weeks?!)

Can't believe I've held back over a week before becoming obsessed with everything! Thats good for me, I'm a google nutter, I must have read every horror story going on miscarriages when I knew I was having one before.

I'm predicting a bleed just before the weekend as last time it was 2weeks from 'wipe'

Sorry again, just driving myself nuts, can see me googling everything all night!

lisawood78

As a rule you see heartbeat from 6 weeks.
Here's hoping they measured you wrong hun x

SusanC_2

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

So either they measured wrong (is that likely?) or it's not growing at the right rate. (can they actually see HB at <4weeks?!)

Yes the measurements can be inaccurate - when I had a scan before the first miscarriage, they did a measurement and it was below the bottom of their chart so they remeasured and got a bigger measurement.

Lauralou

Hugs maclurky, Hope you are resting and getting all the support you need.

Just to update you all i'm going to the EPC tomorrow so im thinking they may scan and im hoping for some good news.

Hope your feeling a bit better today msm

MoneySavingMamma

Lauralou wrote: »

Hugs maclurky, Hope you are resting and getting all the support you need.

Just to update you all i'm going to the EPC tomorrow so im thinking they may scan and im hoping for some good news.

Hope your feeling a bit better today msm

GOOD LUCK LauraLou! Tell us asap how you get on!

Not better today, but the grump will ware off.
OH being an actual C U Next Tuesday, which isn't helping! I've realised if they can't support you in times like this, when you've planned it all, then maybe u are best without them! Sad when it's almost 10years before u see that

Oh well, think I'm gna have a McDonalds today, that fixes EVERYTHING!:j

Lauralou

Hi.

I will not go into detail of my appointment at the EPC as many of you are going through some awful times but all is going good so far.

Hope everyone is ok, Hugs to anyone who would like them:)

pigpen

So pleased you had good news Laura..