Miscarriage support

MoneySavingMamma

Susan, can I ask how far you were when you had the early scan? How much different were the dates?
Sorry to be nosy.

I'm being a Google-addict today, not that I can find ANYTHING useful!

SusanC_2

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

Susan, can I ask how far you were when you had the early scan? How much different were the dates?
Sorry to be nosy.

First scan was at 6+1 and they said I was definitely not as far as six weeks at the time but didn't give any more detail and I didn't get given a report from that scan. Then in the final scan report (scan at 21+6) it said that I'd been put back 7-10 days on the basis of the first scan and that I was 18-19 weeks (which doesn't quite correspond as even 10 days would only have put me back to 20+3). But since I got a positive pregnancy test at 8dpo I know their dating has to be wrong because if it was right it would mean I got a positive pregnancy either at 1dpo or before ovulation which clearly couldn't happen.

MoneySavingMamma

Did they find any reason for what happened to Isabella? Did you have a post-mortom? (I did read back, but couldn't find)

SusanC_2

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

Did they find any reason for what happened to Isabella? Did you have a post-mortom? (I did read back, but couldn't find)

I am supposed to have a follow up appointment at 6-8 weeks but we didn't have a post mortem and I think it is unlikely they would have any answers as to why (they said they only find out about 50% of the time anyway).

Lauralou

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Laura I am so thrilled that you are pregnant!

Will be keeping everything crossed for you hon XX

Hugs and love to all that need them too xx

msb5262 wrote: »

MV took the words out of my mouth!

Love to everyone

MsB x

Thanks MV and Msb

My doctor is referring me to the early pregnancy clinic - which im hoping will be next week.

Now im just trying to stay positive:)

MoneySavingMamma

Lauralou wrote: »

Thanks MV and Msb

My doctor is referring me to the early pregnancy clinic - which im hoping will be next week.

Now im just trying to stay positive:)

Let hope they have great news, help & information to keep things going smoothly!

I'm finding staying positive the hardest thing! I can't decide whether to think positive, as it could possibly have an effect on the outcome. Or stay negative and at least then it might not hurt so much if it goes wrong!

Not feeling very pg, definately not able to rest/put my feet up, that lasted 2days!

I have a cold as well, so lots of coughing & sneezing, which is exactly what I'm trying to avoid!

Also thinking about being measured at <4weeks, when I'm sure I was 5-6w

9 1/2 days till scan....a...very...looong...wait :mad:

MacLurky

Hello, just felt like sharing if that's ok?

Had my 12 wk scan last Monday but sadly it showed baby stopped developing at 6 wks 6days

Despite having every symptom going and no bleeding or cramps, guess it wasn't meant to be

Anyway had my second scan today to confirm and have been booked for a d and c tomorrow

Hope it goes ok..

tiny_tear

MacLurky wrote: »

Had my 12 wk scan last Monday but sadly it showed baby stopped developing at 6 wks 6days

Despite having every symptom going and no bleeding or cramps, guess it wasn't meant to be

Anyway had my second scan today to confirm and have been booked for a d and c tomorrow

Hope it goes ok..

awww i am so sorry for you.
I had an ERPC for miscarriage number 2, it was quick and painless and worked as a sort of closure.

thinking of you

pigpen

Maclurky.. very sad to see your news. The ERPC takes about 15 minutes to do.. piece of cake, I've had several.. and you will need pads for a few days after. It is much easier than waiting for nature.

MacLurky

Thanks tt and pigpen, appreciate your support - at least it should be sorted by this time tomorrow and we can try again x