Miscarriage support

portsmouthali

tiny_tear wrote: »

MSM hope it all goes well for you, fingers crossed...

As to me, my update is I have my results appointment tomorrow at the recurrent miscarriage clinic so I am a bit on edge about that...

I have my 2nd lot of blood tests on the 19th of this month, then my 1st haemotology appointment on 1st June. Good luck for tomorrow, will be thinking of you. Do let us know how you get on xxx

pigpen

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

Thanks PigPen! You were right!

I was a moaner in my time in <12weeks & if I make it past 12 I will be able to moan about my achy bits then, but now I'll be happy (ish)

Also don't want to upset/worry others whose pg is ok.

Night all

You are meant to moan when pregnant.. it is in the rules!! So now you have to moan .. Besides, knowing other people are as miserable as me makes me feel better..

$h!t happens and what doesn't kill us makes us stronger.. now you have to sing..

'Always look on the bright side of life
do-do.. do-do-do-do.. do-do'

SusanC_2

MSM feel free to post as much as you like here. I can understand not wanting to worry people - I'm often unsure how much I should say about my experiences because I don't want to make people worry and feel that pregnancy is an incredibly precarious state.

pigpen

Susan.. if you need to offload do so, your situation is no better than anyone elses and in some ways it is worse. Pregnancy is very precarious and taken far too lightly by far too many people. I sometimes wish I was one of those people who when they got pregnant it meant they got a baby, sadly I am not, but life goes on. ou say whatever you need to say.. May I ask a nosey question? Feel free to ignore if you do not wish to say but may I ask what you named your little girl? You said yesterday you liked it when friends used her name and I have been pondering what her name might be since. Obviously if you don't wish to share don't.. I fully understand

MSM.. feeling crappy this morning?

Moneysavingmama

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

Well, what a day!

Went in completely expecting my thoughts confirmed, at worse finding a eptiopic,

Instead, they found a tiny baby/bean WITH a heartbeat!! (internal scan to find it) I could not believe it & she showed me, I could see it - just, & little beat.
BUT she said something about an 'attempted' miscarriage. The sac is coming/has come away from the wall. Its still attached, but not completely. There is a hemotoma' ? a cluster of blood inside me, that may come out (brown) or be re-absorbed.

I asked whats happens now& she said the midwife would explain more.

Mw said 'I've seen your scan, everything looks fine' I said about the sac pulling away & she didn't seem to know about that. Looked through notes & said she'll see me in 2 wks for another scan.

I asked if there was anything I can do or take (hormones?) to help keep it in there. She said no, just rest, no heavy lifting etc.

I also asked about having no symptoms & she said thats fine also.

I really don't know how to feel, I want to be happy, my baby has a heartbeat! BUT how long for? This must mean I'm high risk for a miscarriage, or I'm in early stages of mc? This is going to be a long and emotional process!

I've not been on here for a couple of weeks and have just been catching up. Was so sad reading what's been happening to you but am now in (happy) tears after reading this. What amazing news. I know things are still unclear and I suppose this is going to be a really stressful time whatever anyone says but I just wanted you to know how happy your news has made me. I'm going to be praying for this little baby (and you). What a sign of hope that little heartbeat is. Try to enjoy the joy of having a little life inside you and just take the excuse to take it easy. Not sure what other forum you're moving to but I want to know what happens and I'm sure it's not going to be news for this forum I'm doing much better now but not really ready for thinking about trying again. Just heard the news about Kelly Brook losing her baby which made me feel really sad again, hence revisiting here. Had forgotten just how lovely everyone on here is. Thanks x

MoneySavingMamma

Thanks everyone! Feeling a bit brighter this morning, until I had to do a number 2! I was too scared to push! 3rd time lucky & I went (Sorry TMI)
I'm going to get on with life, rest what I can, but not get excited or too much hope as like we said it's the hope that causes the pain further down the line. I'll stick around here while everythings unsure, I'll do an update if things go good, but I'll go quiet after that as I don't want to upset anyone or put off newbies. I did disappear after BFP, but this has brought me back!

Good luck to everyone having tests, hope you get some answers.

I'm going to spend the day trying not to trump, sneeze or cough! xx

jules68

Please carry on and post here MSM x Although you have your BFP you probably feel a bit in limbo as to what the outcome might be.For me, I am constantly bleeding(not a lot) so have to wait still til I try again!! I feel I cant post on the TTC thread as I am not officially yet, so am in limbo too!!

Moneysavingmama

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

I'm going to spend the day trying not to trump, sneeze or cough! xx

LOL thanks for making me smile x

Draagonfly

I hope you don't mind if I post.

I had a m/c on Friday 06/05, I'd only found out the previous w/end that I was expecting...DH & I were only just beginning to get our heads around that when it all came crashing down around our ears!

I really don't know which way is up atm.

SusanC_2

Draagonfly wrote: »

I hope you don't mind if I post.

I had a m/c on Friday 06/05, I'd only found out the previous w/end that I was expecting...DH & I were only just beginning to get our heads around that when it all came crashing down around our ears!

I really don't know which way is up atm.

:grouphug: A baby is a huge change in a person's life so the beginning and end of a pregnancy so close together is bound to feel very disorienting as it's the rest of your life changing and then suddenly unchanging.