📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Miscarriage support

Options
1116117119121122525

Comments

  • hulagirl79
    hulagirl79 Posts: 352 Forumite
    Hi msm- i had my erpc on 22nd of march and started my period yesterday so mine was 26 days.
    I didnt think it would be that soon as my pregnancy test still showed positive on thursday. I know everyone is different but iwas told up to 8weeks.
    Am sure it will happen soon, i understand what you are saying soooo many people i know are pregnant it is really hard but fingers crossed we all will be back in bfp soon.
    Hope you are all having a good weekend.
    Xx
  • lisawood78
    lisawood78 Posts: 3,884 Forumite
    I had my Ectopic removed on 30th March and I OV'd today. So looking for next AF around May 1st which is pretty much bang on.
    I wanted to check that I did ov so that I knew everything was still working I guess, having no tubes kind of makes bd'ing at the right time pretty pointless.
    But have sent off the paperwork to our new clinic and we are awaiting a consultation with view to going again asap, so i'm with you girls on getting another BFP asap!
    2 angels in heaven :A
  • Thanks, well I had a natural mc, happened before erpc. I presumed this would mean my cycle would start quicker, as my body did it in its own time, rather than body not catching up with the erpc, does that make sense?
    I'm not feeling any 'due on' symptoms, nor any pg symptoms. On the bright side when pg with DS I didn't have any symptoms, & I'm convinced the one I lost was a girl so lots of sickness etc, so hopefully I just tested too early! Who knows!
    :j - DS - 7
    :A 2011
    :j - DS - 1 (threatened mc for months!)
    :A - ectopic? Feb 2013
    :o - PG EDD Nov 2013
  • hulagirl79
    hulagirl79 Posts: 352 Forumite
    Msm- Fingers crossed you were just testing to early, i dont even know what my cycle is like as we got pregnant on the pill. So am going to start opk from middle of next week unless the bd has already worked :-)
    lisawood- hopefully it wont take long for the consultant to see you. X
    positive thoughts for everyone.
  • Not had AF yet MSM, I'm eagerly awaiting her arrival too :o With my 2 previous (natural) mc's I think my period took about 5 weeks to reappear, and although I had erpc this time I reckon it'll be about the same xx
  • Lauralou
    Lauralou Posts: 983 Forumite
    MSM all my mc's were natural and i started AF different each time shortest was 31 days after and longest was 49 days. I think they say you should have your next period six weeks after the mc
  • jules68
    jules68 Posts: 366 Forumite
    Just done a hpt and it is still showing positive!!!! Baby died end of feb was around 7 weeks, but did not pass it until 18th march so just over 4 weeks ago.How long does it show positive? I have had 2 lots of bleeding lasting about 8/9 days so not sure what on earth is going on!!
  • Lauralou
    Lauralou Posts: 983 Forumite
    Jules sorry i dont know the answer as ive always had a negative within a week or 2. But i didnt want to read and run. Hope someone can help you soon.
  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    jules68 wrote: »
    Just done a hpt and it is still showing positive!!!! Baby died end of feb was around 7 weeks, but did not pass it until 18th march so just over 4 weeks ago.How long does it show positive? I have had 2 lots of bleeding lasting about 8/9 days so not sure what on earth is going on!!
    Did the hospital do a scan to make sure everything had come away? From what I can remember of what I read after my September MC (which was at about 8 weeks), the hCG should go down pretty quickly once everything has come away and if you stop bleeding but then start again it could be to do with stuff that hadn't come away fully before. I would suggest that you phone your PAU as they should know whether they need to do any checks at this point.
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
    2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
    "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die"
  • jules68
    jules68 Posts: 366 Forumite
    I did have a scan about 3 weeks ago and they said that the baby was not there but there was a little ?tissue left but that should dissolve. I will wait another couple of weeks and see how yhings are then. The thought of going back to my local hospital fills me with dread!! I cant officially try again until the end of may at the earliest so I have time to wait, albeit frustration as age is not on my side!!

    Hope you are ok Susan x
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.1K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.6K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.1K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 599K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177K Life & Family
  • 257.4K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.