Miscarriage support

portsmouthali

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

P.S. My dr said it looked 'really nice' down there!!! lol! What does that mean? She was looking internally at the time. Also 'no, can't see anything cheese like' , thats got to be my best compliment ever!!
Her crakers went lonely that lunchtime :eek::eek:

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Thanks MSM, that really made me chuckle

I've not felt too bad today, as usual woke up feeling rubbish but felt better as morning progressed. I've also played the "What causes mc" game too - it's usually stress at work, some random time I got drunk before I conceived, and at the moment it's because I'm overweight - conveniently forgetting that when I fell pregnant with my son (who wasn't planned, bless him!) I was drinking like a fish, smoking 10-15 a day, working in the same job as I have now + doing loads of overtime (overtime!! those were the days...!) and only weighed about half a stone less than I do today

Hope everyone else is OK xxxx

hulagirl79

Msm - thank you for the explanation. You did make me laugh with your conversation with the doc. Lol
ali -glad you had a good day. I question everything i did before the m/c. I had a warm bath, had sex, moved furniture etc i know realisticly i did nothing but i like reason and fact not that it was one of those things. X
hugs to everyone. X

tiny_tear

hulagirl79 wrote: »

Msm - thank you for the explanation. You did make me laugh with your conversation with the doc. Lol
ali -glad you had a good day. I question everything i did before the m/c. I had a warm bath, had sex, moved furniture etc i know realisticly i did nothing but i like reason and fact not that it was one of those things. X
hugs to everyone. X

ha! and when you have more than one you make stupid connections - what happened before all of them

In my case - go to Cambridge and have parents or in-laws coming to visit the following weekend

SusanC_2

Hi, I was wondering if anyone here has been on ESA when they had a miscarriage? I am self employed and have been receiving ESA for hyperemesis gravidarum. Obviously I don't have the hyperemesis anymore but presumably would still be entitled to ESA as I couldn't work at the moment. I don't really want to be having to phone them up and fill in new forms etc. at the moment but I'm worried that if I don't tell them that the situation has changed I might end up getting into trouble about it.

portsmouthali

Hi Susan, so sorry for your loss. I'm only guessing as I've never been self-employed, but I'm sure in your situation you'd still be entitled to ESA.

Take care, you're in my thoughts xxxx

gratefulforhelp_2

susan sorry to hear your news.

jules68

Feel a bit down today x Thought my body was getting back to normal as just had what I thought was af that lasted about 5 days. Started doing opks again and got a positive but am only(I thought) on CD10. I then did a hpt that I had left over and that was positive.So looks like I still have hcg left from the pregnancy.I am so fed up, I know its only been a few weeks but I just want things back to normal.


Sorry for rant but cant talk to anyone else about this.My OH tries to understand but ends up making me feel worse!!

gratefulforhelp_2

I felt just the same, jules, it is soo frustrating.

portsmouthali

Sorry Jules ((((hugs)))) seeing that positive hpt must have been such a cruel reminder. I'm sure it won't be long until everything is back as it was.
Hope you have a nice weekend xxxxx

hulagirl79

Jules- i know what you mean. I did a pregnancy test yesterday and it was still positive i know its only been 18 days but i thought that part would be over with. I guess it will right itself when our bodies are ready.
Sending everyone lots of hugs. X