Miscarriage support

MoneySavingMamma

Hi, moving over from <12weeks.
Had scan 2day after bleed, thought I was 10 wks, but size was 8ish.
Dr 2mro am, going to get painkillers, sleeping tabs & happy pills?
EPAC PM to discuss erpc.
Cant sleep so going to read stories of u brave lot xx

gratefulforhelp_2

Hugs, honey. It will take time to feel better, but you will.

Kellyg

Im so sorry MSM, ive been keeping an eye on you. Im on the TTC thread after also moving over from the less than 12w thread in December.

I imagine you feel like carp right now, but it will get better. I didnt have the ERPC or drugs, just did it naturally. I wish I had now though as its taken ages for me to get back to normal. I'm hoping this is my first proper cycle.

When youre ready come on over to the TTC thread, were a nice bunch. Hugs to you, xx

pebblespop

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

Hi, moving over from <12weeks.
Had scan 2day after bleed, thought I was 10 wks, but size was 8ish.
Dr 2mro am, going to get painkillers, sleeping tabs & happy pills?
EPAC PM to discuss erpc.
Cant sleep so going to read stories of u brave lot xx

i found this thread really helpful especially as i saw so many names who i know have gone on to get pg again and had healthy babies.

i had a mc in november and had the erpc. i am pleased to report i got the bfp a couple of weeks ago. i have my fingers crossed this time will work out fine.

you will feel better over time and may even want to try again soon.

Lauralou

Really sorry to hear your news mennie and MSM

This thread is a wonderful place so please do post if your ever feeling down or need advice.

mennie Have you been offered any tests?

MSM Hope it went ok today at the EPC?

MoneySavingMamma

Hi, booked in for erpc Mon, but heavily bleeding bright red now, so don't know if there will be anything left by then?
If I pass the main bit over the weekend, should I just cancel?
Dr said no to happy pills, no to sleepers, but bullied him into 7days of sleepers. Took 1 last nite, it didn't do much, looked &only 10mg, so I think too weak!
Getting back to normal, I think, might just be ignoring it, Monday will be the big one.

Thanks xxx

gratefulforhelp_2

They will check you out on the gynae ward before ERPC if it has happened naturally. Maybe keep those days off work, though, in case?

I went back after a day or two and I really wasn't all there and shouldn't have, but everyone is different.

MoneySavingMamma

Will I get a gyne check? 1st Mc, but had c-section for only child. Maybe I'm damaged from op? Does that happen? Also test for diseases chlamida etc? shouldn't have as same partner for 9yrs, but u never know!
Mentally better today, physically more pain & red.
Thought I was having the mini labour today (they said I would) be just wind!
Drinking way too much, but better than anti-d's or proper drugs eh?
Drank at work from 3pm! Ha! I'm the boss so who give a ...
life is fu**ed,

pigpen

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

Will I get a gyne check? 1st Mc, but had c-section for only child. Maybe I'm damaged from op? Does that happen? Also test for diseases chlamida etc? shouldn't have as same partner for 9yrs, but u never know!
Mentally better today, physically more pain & red.
Thought I was having the mini labour today (they said I would) be just wind!
Drinking way too much, but better than anti-d's or proper drugs eh?
Drank at work from 3pm! Ha! I'm the boss so who give a ...
life is fu**ed,

It is possible to have damage from a section but it is unlikely and reserved only for me and I had 5 more pregnancies since I was very very damaged and m/c 2 of them.

It is routine to test for chlamydia and a couple of other STD's.. it is just a swab which they do under general when they do the ERPC and they usually use urine test for chlamydia now so it isn't invasive at all.

Hopefully all will sort itself for you so you don't have to have the ERPC.

And be careful with the drinking.. it reduces the clotting ability of the blood and makes you bleed more profusely.

MoneySavingMamma

Thanks PP, i'm naturally mc today. ALOT of pain alot of red. painkillers not cutting it rite now.
I'l still go in mon + see what they say wish i cudv had op before this. feels like mini labour!
Do u look or flush? Gross i know