Now What Would You Do In This Position?

shellsuit

Oh Sally, what an absolute !!!!!! he is!!

Who the hell does he think he is ~ sending a friend request on facebook to his kids who he hasn't seen in years? Some kids can be fked up for life with stuff like that, but you children seem so level headed and mature for their ages ~ obviously because they have a fab Mum!

I hope you get your divorce and I hope that rat gets everything what's coming to him.

Be strong ~ it will all work out in the end xx

SallyUK

Thankyou Shellsuit.

Well folks, I have an update this morning!

I now have it in black and white, from him, that the woman in the photos is indeed his wife. He goes on to say that he's been married to her for 6 years and says he was married 1st time to a white woman but got divorce from her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So why is he telling my lawyer that he's happy to go ahead with divorce as long as he gets access to his kids!!!"

I'm trying hard to get a hold of my lawyer but failing miserably so far!

I'll be back = lol

Sal
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shellsuit

Ooh, shot himself in the foot there me thinks!

So obviously, his new 'wife' mustn't know that you 2 are still married!!

What a barsteard.

SallyUK

Morning Shellsuit,

Yes, it makes me wonder what he has told her!

My son said - Do you think we should try and warn her what he's like in case he does the same to her?

Just had an email back from lawyer who just said that it made interesting reading and she'd dictated a response which I should receive this week!

Sal
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shellsuit wrote: »

Ooh, shot himself in the foot there me thinks!

So obviously, his new 'wife' mustn't know that you 2 are still married!!

What a barsteard.

noapron

I have not read the entire thread but perhaps it's me because I would be suspicious. He must know you would be waiting to pounce on him to serve divorce papers and that you would have survived his desertion.
So does he think by worming his way back into your children's lives, he may get to contact you? Thus I wonder if he could have fallen on hard times or be Ill and need care - or have some other reason which will end in a win win situation for him.

shellsuit

SallyUK wrote: »

Morning Shellsuit,

Yes, it makes me wonder what he has told her!

My son said - Do you think we should try and warn her what he's like in case he does the same to her?

Just had an email back from lawyer who just said that it made interesting reading and she'd dictated a response which I should receive this week!

Sal
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Bless him, he's right though, if she is unaware, she has every right to know.

Does she even know he already has 2 children?

Makes you wonder doesn't it.

SallyUK

Yes it certainly does, Shellsuit.

I'll update again when I finally get lawyer's letter!

Thanks for replying,

Sal
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shellsuit wrote: »

Bless him, he's right though, if she is unaware, she has every right to know.

Does she even know he already has 2 children?

Makes you wonder doesn't it.

Indie_Kid

SallyUK wrote: »

My son said - Do you think we should try and warn her what he's like in case he does the same to her?

He (the man you're married to) may just say you're doing it to split them up.

I do think she has aright to know.

Greener_Grass

Oh Sally I can't believe him! These are the type of stories you don't believe could exist. I don't know how he could live with himself doing this!! I really hope he gets what he deserves!!

SallyUK

Hi Everyone

Not a lot to report tonight, but did get reply email back from lawyer who said that the info I sent her made interesting reading and that she had dictated a response and I would get the letter in the next few days!!

Arrrgh!!!

Sal
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