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  • grey_lady
    grey_lady Posts: 1,047 Forumite
    Sounds like they're going to try and get back together, if he's sleeping with his ex and texting behind your back.
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  • BARGAINHUNTER!
    BARGAINHUNTER! Posts: 848 Forumite
    edited 23 March 2011 at 10:54PM
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    MFW 2011 challenge - Aim: Overpay £414.26 a month/£5,000 a year. Overpayment Total to date: £414.26:jMortgage start 28/9/07 £46,217.00 :TMortgage balance as of 25/05/11 £24,490.58 :T
    Interest saved as of 25/05/11: £2,849.84 Projected term reduction as of 25/05/11: 9 years 11 months
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    Dippychick wrote: »
    He wasn't yours in the first place, so in my opinion you are reaping what you have sown.

    I hate to say it, but for your own sake and his (and all children involved) - do the decent thing and step back.

    They could go on to resolve their marriage and really get along after this and I think they should be given the chance.

    Why is this the OPs fault? She (I assume) was single. OP b/f, that is another matter.
    Rarely have I seen such a judgemnetal post.:mad::mad::mad: So rude.
  • BARGAINHUNTER!
    BARGAINHUNTER! Posts: 848 Forumite
    edited 23 March 2011 at 10:55PM
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    MFW 2011 challenge - Aim: Overpay £414.26 a month/£5,000 a year. Overpayment Total to date: £414.26:jMortgage start 28/9/07 £46,217.00 :TMortgage balance as of 25/05/11 £24,490.58 :T
    Interest saved as of 25/05/11: £2,849.84 Projected term reduction as of 25/05/11: 9 years 11 months
  • Money_maker
    Money_maker Posts: 5,471 Forumite
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    If you wont walk away then all you can do is wait and see how things pan out.

    You have a much more forgiving nature than I.
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  • BARGAINHUNTER!
    BARGAINHUNTER! Posts: 848 Forumite
    edited 23 March 2011 at 10:55PM
    post deleted
    MFW 2011 challenge - Aim: Overpay £414.26 a month/£5,000 a year. Overpayment Total to date: £414.26:jMortgage start 28/9/07 £46,217.00 :TMortgage balance as of 25/05/11 £24,490.58 :T
    Interest saved as of 25/05/11: £2,849.84 Projected term reduction as of 25/05/11: 9 years 11 months
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    BARGAINHUNTER! wrote: »
    Yes I did not have a good Christmas with me at my house with my kids and family imagining them having their family christmas but christmas is all about kids, so understood why they all had to be together. And how much lower does this situation have to go? I cannot walk away, I love him so much and want him

    OP, there are going to be plenty of judges and people who feel they can have a go at you on this thread, it's just the way the internet works, posters are often more direct than they would be in real life.
    You can see that I have supported you thus far, and will continue to do so. But you must realise that only you will decide if/when you leave him. But this will end. And I feel for you, as you clearly love him.
    But.......it is for this reason that you are not ready to listen to people to tell you to leave him.
  • BARGAINHUNTER!
    BARGAINHUNTER! Posts: 848 Forumite
    edited 23 March 2011 at 10:55PM
    post deleted
    MFW 2011 challenge - Aim: Overpay £414.26 a month/£5,000 a year. Overpayment Total to date: £414.26:jMortgage start 28/9/07 £46,217.00 :TMortgage balance as of 25/05/11 £24,490.58 :T
    Interest saved as of 25/05/11: £2,849.84 Projected term reduction as of 25/05/11: 9 years 11 months
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    Money_maker wrote: »
    If you wont walk away then all you can do is wait and see how things pan out.

    You have a much more forgiving nature than I.

    Me too :D I don't think I could ever forgive, not sure that the OP has really, maybe just doing what she thinks she has to to hang onto b/f.:confused:
  • BARGAINHUNTER!
    BARGAINHUNTER! Posts: 848 Forumite
    edited 23 March 2011 at 10:55PM
    post deleted
    MFW 2011 challenge - Aim: Overpay £414.26 a month/£5,000 a year. Overpayment Total to date: £414.26:jMortgage start 28/9/07 £46,217.00 :TMortgage balance as of 25/05/11 £24,490.58 :T
    Interest saved as of 25/05/11: £2,849.84 Projected term reduction as of 25/05/11: 9 years 11 months
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