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wannabe

Ha ha ha you have cheered me up because I can just imagine how bizarre that must have been.mind I am sure that is cheating! can't wait to see the piccies. Did you get filmed as you went around??
wb x

whatamess_2

I dont think so, thankfully!!!!!

One of the french visitors did have a camcorder with him but he wasnt there when I did it.:D

Out of 12 people there was 2 that couldnt do it, me:eek: and a french guy.

whatamess_2

This is a pic of what I was driving, (not a pic from yesterday)

Mr 4x4 is driving, the numbered canes you can see are what you have to go through without touching!! there are 10 `gates` in total.

whatamess_2

Going on about it some more sorry:o

here is a link to the club website. If you want to have a look at some more of what they get up to.
http://www.offroadeurope.co.uk

Click the left hand logo.

cantcope

Morning all. I feel dreadful. Went out for a quiet drink last night. Ended up partying til 3 and was sick all the way home.

I stink of vodka even though i've had a bath. Any tips to stop the room going faster than my eyes? Or to stop me feeling like i'm gonna be sick every 2 minutes. Can't remember having a hangover this bad since i was a teenager.

KathrynPenguin

Hi all I'm back from the IOW :wave:

I enjoyed the weekend, the bands were great and the island was full of Mods on scooters so talked about music loads! Hotel was nice and we didn't argue too much (except for last night). We did agree to divorce though and he has said he will accept a lump sump and sign a financial separation document (its really shaky if he doesn't as I own half my Mums house!). I'm looking to sort this out ASAP and move on, Mum and I are looking to buy a big house together and annexe part of it for her, will have lots of benefits and some drawbacks but we will be able to live seperately but share some of the load with DS.

Reading the stuff - Messy does Mr 4x4 have any mates? I would loooove to do some of that stuff (although not in my Mondeo!). I'm sooo jealous.

See the avatars have gone again, and now there is an icon to click to MSN someone! ONly been gone since Friday!

SeldomSensible

Hope everyone has had a nice bank holiday weekend. Mine was going great until I just received a call from the mother of one of my son's friends. It turns out that when they had a sleep over at his house on Saturday there was no parental supervision. The boys were apparently drinking (not for the first time it turns out) and a bunch of stuff was STOLEN.

She tried to reassure me that she didn't really think it was my boy, but that i'll probably be contacted by the police shortly!!!! I have no idea what to do and just feel completely stressed.

Boy claims he knows nothing about the theft (which i tend to believe, because he's basically a good kid and looked genuinely shocked) - but has admitted to the drinking/smoking. I know it's natural at that age but I'm not sure how to deal with it. I don't even have the option of 'wait till your father gets home' cos it's just the two of us. I sent him to bed early for a start - mainly to give myself time to think.

Any advice gratefully received.....

cantcope

I think screaming and shouting will only make him do it more. Try and find out why he did it? Was it to look cool? Does he like it? Does he regret it now?

Let him know you are disappointed and then think of a suitable punishment. All kids are different so what works for one wont necessarily work for another.

My mum used to ground me but it never stopped me doing it, made me want to do it more because i knew it was a way to wind her up.


Good luck. Lets hope he feels pretty rotten today
Pleased to say i grew out of it though and we are the best of friends now.

thisisme_2

Bucket of coffe
ok it not on but all u can do is say to the parent of the missing items is look idont believe it was my son but they r partly to blame for having no parental supervison dependent on the age of the children but if they wish to take it further and get the police involved just stand by your son and just wait to see outcome the other parent in question a to blame if there was alcholol drunk

Philippa36

Oh BOC I can totally relate ~ my DS is 16, almost 17 and I have been through almost every crisis imaginable with him. He's a good kid really, most of them are but its still difficult with them at times.

Just keep talking to him and telling him how you feel. The pollice will only want to have a talk to him to see if he knows anything and they are usually really good with teenagers. My DS had a party early in the year after breaking into the house while we were away for the weekend (he was supposed to be staying with friends with no access to our home). We came back to find the place trashed and a lad two doors down from us had assaulted his g/f in our hallway. The police were involved but then she dropped the charges about a month later.

Are there grandparents that you can get on your side?

Good luck xx