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OberonSH's DFW Diary Thread - 1 Woman, 1 Toddler & A Whole Lotta Debt!

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  • MrsTine wrote: »
    If you need a hand with the crochet... do shout ;)
    The crumble is easy but I looked up this for you Apple & Blackberry Crumble
    I only use it when using bramley apples though... the crumble is basically always the same, adjust the filling to your preferences :) I have rhubarb and blackberry sat in the kitchen ready for crumble to be added and thrown in the oven tonight :)

    Artisan bread - have a nose over on the OS board - there is a recipe on the last page at the moment :) it's REALLY simple :) You could even make it today ;) you know you want to ;)

    I'm heading in to the office today - test of fire for the old back - eek!
    Physio tomorrow so that should be fun!

    I've given up telling DH about what Obi done this time, and BOB (whom he firmly believes is a bloke :rotfl:) has said etc

    Hey Obi you think that site could blossom into an English version of Martha Stewart? I keep thinking I should try to put something together like that... Maybe a collaboration? ;)


    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: Just tell him i am cross dressing BOB the builder, and am reaching for my feminine side..by making cakes and perving after David Tennant..or he may well think i am that chap who plays Capt Jack if you tell him that:rotfl: :rotfl:

    Good luck with the back bloke..now i wonder how you did that? being back so soon from honeymoon and all! *cough*in a delicate pink flowery hanky, wipes at side of mouth with pinky in the air.
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
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    You mean Johnny Depp? :) If he thought you were Johnny he'd be a lot more worried ;) Johnny is in my allowed list :rotfl:

    My back problems are thanks to a fourlegged hairy handsome stud called Seamus...




    Actually I think he's been gelded and I fell off whilst riding poor old Seamus what is an old nag at the riding school :)
    DFW Nerd #025
    DFW no more! Officially debt free 2017 - now joining the MFW's! :)

    My DFW Diary - blah- mildly funny stuff about my journey
  • Well i put him way at the top of the list, and is for private pervy pleasure only..phwooaaarr!
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • OberonSH
    OberonSH Posts: 1,792 Forumite
    Morning guys quick post whilst DS is having the worls longest nap

    I think I may have tracked down Gordon Brown's B*stard Love Child, via myspace. I typed in his last name, and this profile popped up. It's not a username I'd have associated with him, but most of the info fits - religion, area. A further search shows a lass with a baby with his last name, did say he was a parent on the myspace. My heart is absolutely pounding now, it's scary.

    Come on guys, need some words of advice - he's obviously moved on, much as I hate it it;s his right, but it feels realy weird.
    This year I'm getting organised once and for all, and going to buy a house with my wonderful other half. And that' s final!

    Current Pay Off Target : £1500 :mad:
  • The words go get him and get your money come to mind.

    I know what you mean about him moving on..but i think it is more a case of he has neglected his duties and care towards you and your little girl..and has the cheek to have another one, and lavish attention there!

    He will be very easy to trace and i would put your mate onto him for the dosh...
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • OberonSH
    OberonSH Posts: 1,792 Forumite
    Okay have traced the lass - it is him, still using the same nickname as I gave him (eddie bear) and she goes on about how he'll look after her - poor cow. Am just doing a message to her on a site she says she uses. Don;t want to be mean to her, but am making it clear that I want him to sign over rights.

    This is really weird, and I don;t know how I feel. I imagined him in a pit, not getting another lass preggers and having a normal life - didn;t thnk he was capable.
    This year I'm getting organised once and for all, and going to buy a house with my wonderful other half. And that' s final!

    Current Pay Off Target : £1500 :mad:
  • dottyanne
    dottyanne Posts: 1,530 Forumite
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    Hey Obi - be strong and remember the reason you wanted to contact him in the first place - some other poor girl and her child will have to put up with him and i wouldnt mind betting she'll be on here herself in a year or 2 courtesy of him running up debts with her.
    Focusing on clearing the credit cards in 2018 :T
  • webitha
    webitha Posts: 4,799 Forumite
    well missus ive finally caught up with your thread, and wow on the wedding fotos, your not what i imagined at all, your sooo young and pretty, not that i thought you where a troll or owt (quickly digging the big hole for my other foot :D)

    as for the squirrels armpit, i know what you mean coz when the lanky piece of pee pee had another i felt a tad strange til i saw it, sorry her, and i know im biased for my own kids, but, the poor kid, and they called it sofie(sp) with 2 zz at the front spelt zzsofie :confused:
    but go get him tiger and put the "friend" onto him


    If we can put a man on the moon...how come we cant put them all there?

  • gallygirl
    gallygirl Posts: 17,240 Forumite
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    OberonSH wrote: »
    Am just doing a message to her on a site she says she uses. Don;t want to be mean to her, but am making it clear that I want him to sign over rights.


    Is this wise? Wouldn't it be better to 'stalk' for a while & find out where they are?
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
    :) Mortgage Balance = £0 :)
    "Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"
  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
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    I'd find out where they are and give their address details to the mate to start with... then I'd contact the creditors with whom there were officially joint debts and give them numpties address details.

    After that maybe present him a bill for lack of support for your daughter? But then he might want visitation rights just to annoy you... Which I don't think is fair on Mr Obi (the nice one :) )
    DFW Nerd #025
    DFW no more! Officially debt free 2017 - now joining the MFW's! :)

    My DFW Diary - blah- mildly funny stuff about my journey
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