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Disgusted/Hurt please help
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whydoesithappen wrote: »I had thought about doing that, but he knows my voicemail cuts off after 4 mins, but I think I will ask himn if he realises he called me see what he says. Keep calm question him but if I feel like he is lying I will keep quiet and try to get more information, he has been staying out more than normal recently but never really thought anything of it as I didn't think we would ever be in that 'place'.
Thank you all wish me luck logging off he will be here any min.
That rang alarm bells for me0 -
Hello OP and just joining the others wishing you good luck and hope you get to the bottom of it with him.
Personally, I would have laid it all on the line just as you told us, exactly what you heard him say, then watch his face for his reaction. Don't give him time to charm his way out of it or make up excuses or to attack you for being suspicious - I would have hit him with it straight away without any hints, as that is most likely to get his real reaction. I wouldn't tell him half the story or game play. Anyway, a bit late now for me to be saying this - sorry.
I hope things will be ok for you - that's what matters. xx
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Wishing you the very best OP. What a dreadful situation to be in.
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good luck!0
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hope it all works out good for youTo Love Is To Be In Love. Play with Fire Expect To Get Burnt. A Relationship Is A Two Way Thing!
Love is not something you make up and it has away of making you push your own boundaries, love always comes out on top.
Go Running Twitters0 -
Well, by the time you are looking at these messages hopefully you will have more of an idea what is going on. So I just want to say that you will get through this, however terrible you feel and however different the future looks, you will come out the other side. Have faith in yourself and the decisions you make, maintain control of your life and do chat whenever you feel the need to.
Thinking of you.0 -
Thinking of you too. You sure are handling this well so far. xxx 0
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How did it go??????
(sorry, I'm impatient. I hope you and your OH gave you a good explanation).Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')
No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)0 -
he has been staying out more than normal recently but never really thought anything of it
This rang alarm bells for me too.
Good luck OP, and keep posting xI'm a retired employment solicitor. Hopefully some of my comments might be useful, but they are only my opinion and not intended as legal advice.0 -
You sound like you've handled this really well, I wish I could say I would be the same in that situation.
I hope you've spoken now and you are ok.0
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