I just do not know what to do

newbeginning_2

Whats happened Tina?

thorsoak

Tina - you have been given excellent advice in the past - you know this. Things will only get worse, and your heart will be broken time after time unless you are strong enough to walk away from the situation.

I'm really sorry that things have turned out this way - you know what you must do!

{{hugs}}

KONG

thorsoak wrote: »

Tina - you have been given excellent advice in the past - you know this. Things will only get worse, and your heart will be broken time after time unless you are strong enough to walk away from the situation.

I'm really sorry that things have turned out this way - you know what you must do!

{{hugs}}

I agree with Thorsoak, you know what you must do Tina. Hugs from little Denmark.

Kong

tinatony1

i know what i must do

we are discussing practicalities tomorrow evening

i still love him but i wont take anymore.

she is dictating everything to him that she wants and he will not accept it for long i know this for fact but when he does come crawling back to me i will not allow it

he will realise in time that he has lost the best thing he ever had and i hope it breaks him into the same little pieces he has broken me into

i have seen the doctor and am going back on friday for STD tests, i hope to god that i am clear but in other ways i hope i have something so he will realise what a !!!!! she really is.

MyRubyRed

tinatony1 wrote: »

its the same !!!!! as before.

i am broken now but if he thinks he can forsake me again then he has another think coming

Tina, what has happenned? Has he left again?

k_bagpuss

Tina, I posted to you on this thread when you first started it, as I'd been in the exact same situation. My ex told me he was willing to try again and he wasn't on touch with other woman (she was geographically a LONG way away) but he told me he had cut all ties with her. Then he sent a text meant for her to me by mistake and then it all came out. Not only was he in touch still but he was "confused". I am so glad you've finally woken up and smelled the coffee Tina. I was devastated at the time (1995) but now my life couldn't be better and I really really wouldn't want the ex back despite me being convinced at the time we'd be together till the end of our days.
Stay strong Tina. It's bloomin hard but it honestly does get easier and the pain and hurt WILL go

tinatony1

yes he has left again, his stuff is all still here but he is with her again.

i dont really know if he ever came back apart from in body.

it is a long and complicted saga and i cannot take anymore of the lies and betrayal

i truly believe in karma and if i can help it along in anyway then i will, he will get his just rewards and so will the !!!!! from hell.

honeyD

Tell him to pick up his stuff. Leaving it there means he has a way to come back again which he shouldnt be given! Id have thrown it all outside already and told him to get his backside over and take it away.

catlovin_gal11

k_bagpuss wrote: »

Stay strong Tina. It's bloomin hard but it honestly does get easier and the pain and hurt WILL go

I really am sorry that things did not turn out as you had hoped. I think you are right this time though. He cannot walk over you any more. He should go and get the medecine he deserves from his 'other life'. He will realise what he's lost, but maybe then he will realise how much he has hurt you. I really think you are doing the right thing. You have give him umpteen chances. A cheat doesn't deserve such treatment. Just stay strong. You know we are all here for you.

newbeginning_2

As above Tina, Bag his stuff up yourself, then he has no reason to stay he just has to pick it up and go. Let him swan off to his new life and you concentrate on YOU now, and by the time he comes crawling back you'll be so much happier.

STAY STRONG!!!