DVLA sent back stained marriage certificate.

ninestonecreature

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

I see the sense of humour bypass has been successful as well!

I'm sorry, am I meant to take this all as a joke??????????

There has been insults flung by lots of different people here so please DO NOT make this out to be me taking things the wrong way.

Amistoso_2

ninestonecreature wrote: »

You see this post Pollycat, this was all I wanted. I could explain to you why it may have seemed I was contradicting myself but I won't because I wasn't and it's not important now...I just wanted advice!

You won't always get what you want on a forum as not everyone will agree with what you say, if that's what your after stick to your familly and friends to tell you what you want to hear!!

ninestonecreature wrote: »

He certainly isn't scared of me, but then that's probably because every day I go and help to care for his terminally ill father, this on top of caring for him and my three daughters probably makes him think of me a little bit better then you do. What do you want, a medal? if his father is terminaly ill is that not something more worthy to stress and worry about than a peice of paper??!!


Please...really, go and give your advice to someone who wants it. How dare you.

You post on an open forum and you will get replys you don't want along with those you do, don't just post on here to get people to agree with what you are saying as it seldom happens like that

viktory

ninestonecreature wrote: »

Sorry....how did you come to that conclusion?????

Please...really, go and give your advice to someone who wants it. How dare you.

I came to this conclusion by reading your posts and I will give advice wherever I like. If you don't like it then pop me on ignore.

Oldernotwiser

ninestonecreature wrote: »

I'm sorry, am I meant to take this all as a joke??????????

Actually, it was!

The best advice you had was early on in the thread - "don't sweat the small stuff"; if you react like this to a minor annoyance, how will you react when life really throws the !!!!!! at the fan?

blue_monkey_2

Reading her post about dealing with a terminally ill person it is probably because she has lots of !!!!!! to deal with at the moment that this 'minor' annoyance tipped her over the edge, she then took all of her fury out on the DVLA/here rather than with others around her. Easy done, I do it myself over minor stuff and it makes you feel so much better as 'real' people don't have to deal with it - especially when the people around you are also dealing with the !!!!!! too.

However, I would be annoyed as well if that happened to my certificate. I got married 11 years ago and it is still pristine as the day we got it. Sure it has never seen the light of day and stays in a box in the cupboard but I'd be furious had we gone all the way to NY for it only to find someone had ruined it for me by dripping their lunch over it!!

jackieglasgow

advent1122 wrote: »

But an apology would be an admission of guilt.
They are saying it was not them who dribbled curry over the certificate so have nothing to apologise for.

Also if they had apologised do anyone genuinely believe the OP would have been happy with that.
No, neither do I.

I can believe that, you would not believe what people eat at their desks in offices. I work in one of almost 1000 people, and they don't all use the canteent, that's for sure!

blue_monkey_2

jackieglasgow wrote: »

I can believe that, you would not believe what people eat at their desks in offices. I work in one of almost 1000 people, and they don't all use the canteent, that's for sure!

I was always eating at my desk - the greasy spoon over the road used to put my full english in one of those styrofoam boxes for me to eat at my desk. I was pregnant and had a thing for bacon and tinned tomatoes with fried bread for dipping (I feel ill thinking about it now, LOL). Luckily I was not dealing with other peoples documents but a few invoices were filed with food marks on them before the boss saw them. Oops.

Oldernotwiser

blue_monkey wrote: »

I was always eating at my desk - the greasy spoon over the road used to put my full english in one of those styrofoam boxes for me to eat at my desk. I was pregnant and had a thing for bacon and tinned tomatoes with fried bread for dipping (I feel ill thinking about it now, LOL). Luckily I was not dealing with other peoples documents but a few invoices were filed with food marks on them before the boss saw them. Oops.

When I was 17 I had an essay back from a teacher with liquid stains on it. She said "Sorry, ONW, it's gin!" Probably the first time I realised that teachers were human beings!

Amistoso_2

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

When I was 17 I had an essay back from a teacher with liquid stains on it. She said "Sorry, ONW, it's gin!" Probably the first time I realised that teachers were human beings!

LOL. ONW, was your essay so bad she had to have a drink whilst reading it??!! :rotfl:

ihatecaptcha

blue_monkey wrote: »

Reading her post about dealing with a terminally ill person it is probably because she has lots of !!!!!! to deal with at the moment that this 'minor' annoyance tipped her over the edge, she then took all of her fury out on the DVLA/here rather than with others around her. Easy done, I do it myself over minor stuff and it makes you feel so much better as 'real' people don't have to deal with it - especially when the people around you are also dealing with the !!!!!! too.

Yes, and it works both ways -- anybody on MSE who is feeling annoyed and irritable gets to take it out on a suitably annoying OP. Everyone gets to enjoy a good shouting match with no damage done to significant others. Free therapy all round -- thanks, internet :-)